The Word and thought of Mother for discussion

The focus and attention to words creates great conversations. With the celebration of Mother’s Day this past weekend Mother is a great word for discussion. For most of us honoring our Mother’s takes very little thought. Our actions are moved by the care we received and the nurturing we experienced. Loving Mother, especially on her national day of recognition is something we wouldn’t dare miss. I am mindful of the fact that not everyone has enjoyed the relationship of a mother that cares, is sincere and takes her responsibility seriously.
I believe it is very important to acknowledge the loss some reading my column experienced as a child growing up. It is unfortunate for those whose Mother passed prior to their ability to really remember them and it is equally unfortunate for those children whose Mother was absent by choice and who left Motherhood to another for their child. One of the great aspects of focus and attention is that we can learn that while some facts are sad and true, these matters alone are not the ultimate determining factor for happiness and appreciation. The word Mother can be used as a noun, verb or adjective. As an adjective I could say, I love Detroit as my Mother homeland, or I could say my good friend Sarah dreams of being a Mother, using it as a verb. One fact for certain, the verb usages of the word create a special warm feeling in ones heart when we experience the best of Mother. Even with limited experience the opportunity to be cherished, tended to, spoiled, and fussed over is a good feeling that leaves lasting impressions always loved.
April 4, 1977 Southeastern Kentucky experienced a raging flood from Mother Earth and 33 years later, on May 4, 2010, Nashville, Tennessee awakens to flood waters she never dreamed possible either. Imagine the same Cumberland River flowing from Pineville to Nashville jumpers her banks to announce there is no control when Mother Earth decides to unleash her force.
A single event of life or the combination of events often hand to each of us both challenges to accept and obstacles to over come. There are many steps in overcoming these new moments in all our lives. It could be a simple reflection of great memories or moments in which multiple situations require the assistance of others who must step up to answer the call and provide assistance as a good Mother.
The great answer for every conversation that deserves our focus and attention would be the inclusion of Jesus Christ. He was a ever present force in 1977 and He remains the same in 2010. There are many things in life that require adjustments. Changes in jobs, relationships with friends, varying responsibilities or duties with family are just a few that require change. Yet, the every present constant force of peace that fills an inner spirit only comes from a relationship with Jesus Christ. When the waters of life roll out of her streams and the mud of the creek seems to remain we need to be reminded that the forgiveness found in Jesus Christ creates in us a new birth that establishes us as children of God—joint heirs through His love.


Until then