The Statler Brothers introduced the world to the song, “The Class of ’57”. The chorus simply says that The Class of ’57 had their dreams. Well The Class of ’83 had her dreams too. Dreams about the careers we would pursue, the families we would build, and the difference we would make. Our teachers taught us that we could make a difference by simply being ourselves, working hard, and thinking about others first. I must say it would be nice if every bought into this dream too, but nevertheless The Class of ’83 has made a difference. That year the Maroon and White Bobcats of Bell County High School selected Jackie Oslonian and Robert Burnett as the Most Athletic in our Senior Superlatives. Our children grow up looking like us for the most part, acting like us more than we will admit and we pray achieve more than we did. Peyton Hisel, Jackie’s daughter, and Andrew Burnett, Robert’s son have both made their parents proud and have moved the dreams of the Class of ’83 to the next level.
Jackie Oslonian was without a doubt a great student athlete and when I asked her what she felt knowing her daughter signed to play in the Ohio Valley Conference at Jacksonville State in Oxford, Alabama she said, “I feel blessed and thankful on many different levels. My daughter has the opportunity to play at the next level, and she earned it”. Peyton is finishing her senior year of high school at Tates Creek in Lexington, Ky. Her statement and thoughts about playing at the next level are quite simple. “Competition is all about getting better and this is a challenge I welcome.” She was recruited by Eastern Kentucky University, and the University of Tennessee-Martin just to give you a glimpse of who was interested in her talent, skills, and determination. With a NCAA Division I full scholarship to join the Gamecocks Women’s basketball program at JSU Peyton will make a difference from the classroom floor as she seek an academic career in the area of nursing and or sports medicine.
Andrew Burnett has defied all the odds as a Brentwood Tennessee High School Senior.
He signed to play NCAA Division I Lacrosse at Sacred Heart University in Fairfield, Connecticut. “You could be the best player in Lacrosse in the State of Tennessee and no would care”, Robert Burnett shared with me when I spoke with him about his son’s accomplishment. “There are 60 Division I teams in the Nation and only 10-12 kids per team and my son sought out his dream and he did it”. Andrew is what is known as a Faceoff specialist. His winning percentage at this position is 59.8% winning 255 out of 376 faceoffs. For those not familiar with Lacrosse, Andrew plays in a position that requires hard nose, totally aggressive and a mental toughness to get the ball in a one on one battle. Andrew does this with exception skills and technique. Getting the ball puts your team on offense and this is the position you want to be to score first and win your game. When asked about his thoughts of signing to play Lacrosse at the Division I Level Andrew said, “This is hard to explain because all the odds were against me reaching my dream. I took one skill set, winning at faceoff and it turned into my opportunity”.
Parents who watch their children succeed at their dreams are parents who are also blessed to remember their own goals. They become parents who now watch their dreams (their children) with even greater wonder than their own hopes when they were elected to the highest honors we could give back in our day. Peyton and Andrew you should know that there are many members of the Class of ’83 who applaud your success and who applaud your ever basket, great defense and faceoff win and score that you each achieve. Your grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and yes, even your grandparents friends and folks you may never meet celebrate your success too. One of the great traits of mountain folks is that we get excited when folks show us a picture or tell us a story of your success. On behalf of the Class of ’83, please allow this columnist to say congratulations and that you have more fans than you know from here in the mountains of Southeastern Kentucky.
Until then
Saturday, December 31, 2011
Saturday, December 24, 2011
First Christmas In Heaven
Christmas is a time of that year that brings solemn thoughts as individuals reflect upon this Christmas, their First Christmas, without a loved one. I first published this poem in 1998 as it was used to minister to me in the loss of my grandfather. Each year at this time of the year I publish it again in my column with the prayer that this poem gives each of us hope through faith in Jesus Christ. There is nothing that will replace the loss of a loved one, but the comfort of their presence in Heaven with Jesus does provide me with peace, especially at Christmas.
My First Christmas in Heaven
I see the countless Christmas Trees around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven’s stars, reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular; please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can’t compare with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart
But I am not so far away, we really aren’t apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones, you know I hold you dear
And be glad I’m spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do.
For I can’t count the blessing or love He has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear.
Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
Until then
My First Christmas in Heaven
I see the countless Christmas Trees around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven’s stars, reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular; please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can’t compare with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart
But I am not so far away, we really aren’t apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones, you know I hold you dear
And be glad I’m spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do.
For I can’t count the blessing or love He has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear.
Remember, I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
Until then
Saturday, December 10, 2011
Horse Creek Road Baptist Church - Thanks for the difference!
Now that you have visited with family and friends, and no doubt had a plate if not two plates full of food, have you turned the page to Christmas yet? As you know, I am in doing my own tradition that I began several years ago. Forget the fluff and pomp of most holiday traditions. Mine is very simple. I just spend the time leading up to Christmas being thankful for the blessings I have experienced, the friends that have made a difference in my life and the situations that have changed me because I was there. Over the years I have personally been amazed at the responses to my thanksgiving tradition. Let me say thanks now for your emails and phone calls. Appreciation is something that I would say one must work at. Learning how to say thanks is easy. Most folks allow thanks to fall from their lips with total ease, the only problem I hear most of the time is the lack of genuine heartfelt thanks when they say such. It is like when you hear the expression, “I will be praying for you”. Now if this is a challenge to you, then so be it, but you want to believe folks will do what they say especially when it involves prayer, but for some reason I think many people use those words because they make us feel good. Many times folks don’t know what to say, so we say spiritual and religious sounding phrases that make us feel good and hopefully will present us in a respectable and positive view by others.
Having the privilege of serving a congregation and a community as pastor is a most humbling opportunity and gratifying position. Horse Creek Road Baptist Church in Corbin, Ky., was the first church I had the privilege of serving as pastor. I could write that I am not sure what they were thinking when they did such, but looking back to 1992 it wasn’t so much what they were thinking or what I was thinking. It was really all about what God was doing! My spirit of thanksgiving continues remember what God did at Horse Creek Road and three special deacons that God used in my life. C.C. Pope was the first voice of association with HCRBC. C.C. was calling me to see if I would be willing to help fill the churches pulpit on Sunday’s while they were looking for a pastor. A very small congregation, Horse Creek is located in the Sweet Hollow Area of Laurel and Knox County as the church was founded in September 1884. Just 20 years ago it was very easy to imagine the Sunday scene. Folks riding to church on horses and mules, using the trees that filled the church property to tie their livestock to I can see clearly still. I can imagine the foot paths used by those early settlers as the church bell rings down the valley signifying it was church time.
Deacon Bill Blankenship, Phillip Howard and C.C. Pope were the forces of faith, hope and change. I had just returned to Kentucky from Fort Worth, Texas and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary when I accepted the call to be pastor of Horse Creek Road. These three deacons had been faithful to Horse Creek. Serving in the role they too had accepted and with a deep love for the community they each filled various leadership positions. Through the years they had seen lives be changed by the love and grace Jesus Christ gives to all who ask, and they had also witnessed change. Some of the change was just reality of a small church. The Bible says that His ways are higher than ours and that He does exceedingly above and beyond what we ask or think. HCRBC was an example of just that and served as a changing force in the lives of so many. Galatians 6:9 says that if we don’t grow weary, in due season we will reap if we faint not. C.C., Bill, and Phillip witnessed that truth from God’s word as did all of us who came, attended, participated and even watched from a distance.
A young man called to serve as Minister of Youth was Mike Wilson. He later served the largest SBC church in Tennessee, Two Rivers in Nashville and now he leads MYlifeSpeaks and directs an orphanage in Haiti. The blessings of a committed time continue as the current pastor, Scott Williams was also a product of that specific time and faith of three deacons who believed Horse Creek Road Baptist Church was a special place. And it is indeed. My thanks is overflowing for His work.
Until then
Having the privilege of serving a congregation and a community as pastor is a most humbling opportunity and gratifying position. Horse Creek Road Baptist Church in Corbin, Ky., was the first church I had the privilege of serving as pastor. I could write that I am not sure what they were thinking when they did such, but looking back to 1992 it wasn’t so much what they were thinking or what I was thinking. It was really all about what God was doing! My spirit of thanksgiving continues remember what God did at Horse Creek Road and three special deacons that God used in my life. C.C. Pope was the first voice of association with HCRBC. C.C. was calling me to see if I would be willing to help fill the churches pulpit on Sunday’s while they were looking for a pastor. A very small congregation, Horse Creek is located in the Sweet Hollow Area of Laurel and Knox County as the church was founded in September 1884. Just 20 years ago it was very easy to imagine the Sunday scene. Folks riding to church on horses and mules, using the trees that filled the church property to tie their livestock to I can see clearly still. I can imagine the foot paths used by those early settlers as the church bell rings down the valley signifying it was church time.
Deacon Bill Blankenship, Phillip Howard and C.C. Pope were the forces of faith, hope and change. I had just returned to Kentucky from Fort Worth, Texas and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary when I accepted the call to be pastor of Horse Creek Road. These three deacons had been faithful to Horse Creek. Serving in the role they too had accepted and with a deep love for the community they each filled various leadership positions. Through the years they had seen lives be changed by the love and grace Jesus Christ gives to all who ask, and they had also witnessed change. Some of the change was just reality of a small church. The Bible says that His ways are higher than ours and that He does exceedingly above and beyond what we ask or think. HCRBC was an example of just that and served as a changing force in the lives of so many. Galatians 6:9 says that if we don’t grow weary, in due season we will reap if we faint not. C.C., Bill, and Phillip witnessed that truth from God’s word as did all of us who came, attended, participated and even watched from a distance.
A young man called to serve as Minister of Youth was Mike Wilson. He later served the largest SBC church in Tennessee, Two Rivers in Nashville and now he leads MYlifeSpeaks and directs an orphanage in Haiti. The blessings of a committed time continue as the current pastor, Scott Williams was also a product of that specific time and faith of three deacons who believed Horse Creek Road Baptist Church was a special place. And it is indeed. My thanks is overflowing for His work.
Until then
Saturday, December 3, 2011
Thankgivings for Prayer
I am easily still within my “Season of Thankgivings” in which I am attempting to bring reasons for thanks to each of us as we have been blessed throughout the year and for many, year after year. One of the big thanks that gives me reason for smiles, hope and encouragement is prayer. Praying is one of those things that a lot of folks talk about doing, and it is a subject that maybe many individuals do without any clear direction of who they are praying to. Me, I know in whom I believe and His name is Jesus. I have discovered that He listens and that He also responds, which has kept me coming back to His throne time and time again.
Prayer is a powerful tool and the fact-of-the-matter based on Christian Scripture is that Christians can pray for anyone and that individual can be the blessed person because of the prayers of another even though they might not have even asked for prayer. Yes, the Bible says that the prayers of the righteous avail much. Considering the subject matter of prayer the Bible is also very clear about what happens when two Christians get together to pray and gather in His name. Positive things happen because two Christians agree and because they agree for God’s Will to be accomplished and not theirs.
There have been thousands of testimonies of God’s Hand-i-work accomplished in the lives of individuals who were given news of no hope and even advice to make preparations because of the exhaustion of medical procedures and treatments. News as this is never what you want to hear and sometimes not what you are prepared for or expecting either. People pray about lots of things. We pray for our children before they are born, as they are growing up and in some situations the children we pray for are those that come into our lives at different age levels and circumstances. Prayer is something we implore when we are facing decisions about work, or situations that require us to lead a group of people toward a goal too. Maybe the most common prayer would be for medic al outcomes, tests, results, surgeries and procedures. I say this is the most common prayer because of my experience over the past 29 years of ministry. Most folks want to pray when they are up against a wall or are facing trials they never imagined a way out of prior to that moment. There is absolutely nothing wrong with praying in emergencies either. I strongly encourage all to pray when such times arrive in our lives. It is often in these types of moments that we realize there is someone that cares and there is a peace that seems to exist when we practice faith. Jesus has the unique ability to hear a million prayers at once, well, actually all the prayers of the world which would include some 6,840,507,000 and counting every second. Not sure how he does it, but he does and I’m for one just thankful that He is able!
I am assuming that those reading this column will be able to admit we have all prayed at some point in our lives, the most precious prayers to the ears of Jesus are simply two. The most important prayer Jesus wants to hear from us is the prayer that comes from our heart where we ask Him to come into our heart and to forgive us and to fill us with His plan and purpose. The second prayer that Jesus longs to hear is the one of praise. If one spends time praying over situation after situation then you would think it would be natural to praise Him like no other when the answer comes, right? But so often that is not the case. The Bible tells of the one who returned to say thanks while everyone else went on their way without taking time to come back and praise the giver whose touch made the change they had been seeking. Finding the courage to express thanks is not only the right thing to do, but it is the example we should all follow as individuals who are grateful. Churches should never have a problem in finding someone to testify about the blessings of God but sometimes the praise is either shorted lived or never even spoken at all. I personally thing this is a great day and time of the year to live a life of thanks and a life of prayer.
Until then
Prayer is a powerful tool and the fact-of-the-matter based on Christian Scripture is that Christians can pray for anyone and that individual can be the blessed person because of the prayers of another even though they might not have even asked for prayer. Yes, the Bible says that the prayers of the righteous avail much. Considering the subject matter of prayer the Bible is also very clear about what happens when two Christians get together to pray and gather in His name. Positive things happen because two Christians agree and because they agree for God’s Will to be accomplished and not theirs.
There have been thousands of testimonies of God’s Hand-i-work accomplished in the lives of individuals who were given news of no hope and even advice to make preparations because of the exhaustion of medical procedures and treatments. News as this is never what you want to hear and sometimes not what you are prepared for or expecting either. People pray about lots of things. We pray for our children before they are born, as they are growing up and in some situations the children we pray for are those that come into our lives at different age levels and circumstances. Prayer is something we implore when we are facing decisions about work, or situations that require us to lead a group of people toward a goal too. Maybe the most common prayer would be for medic al outcomes, tests, results, surgeries and procedures. I say this is the most common prayer because of my experience over the past 29 years of ministry. Most folks want to pray when they are up against a wall or are facing trials they never imagined a way out of prior to that moment. There is absolutely nothing wrong with praying in emergencies either. I strongly encourage all to pray when such times arrive in our lives. It is often in these types of moments that we realize there is someone that cares and there is a peace that seems to exist when we practice faith. Jesus has the unique ability to hear a million prayers at once, well, actually all the prayers of the world which would include some 6,840,507,000 and counting every second. Not sure how he does it, but he does and I’m for one just thankful that He is able!
I am assuming that those reading this column will be able to admit we have all prayed at some point in our lives, the most precious prayers to the ears of Jesus are simply two. The most important prayer Jesus wants to hear from us is the prayer that comes from our heart where we ask Him to come into our heart and to forgive us and to fill us with His plan and purpose. The second prayer that Jesus longs to hear is the one of praise. If one spends time praying over situation after situation then you would think it would be natural to praise Him like no other when the answer comes, right? But so often that is not the case. The Bible tells of the one who returned to say thanks while everyone else went on their way without taking time to come back and praise the giver whose touch made the change they had been seeking. Finding the courage to express thanks is not only the right thing to do, but it is the example we should all follow as individuals who are grateful. Churches should never have a problem in finding someone to testify about the blessings of God but sometimes the praise is either shorted lived or never even spoken at all. I personally thing this is a great day and time of the year to live a life of thanks and a life of prayer.
Until then
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Season of Thankgivings - Here am I Lord, send me
While Christmas is an important time of the year, we as Christians should not limit ourselves to one weekend of thanks for those that have helped to shape and mentor our lives. I wrote last week that we are often impacted by folks we don’t even know personally. These are individuals that followed their passions and the lead of God in their lives who by doing so, touched and changed ours. I am pretty sure that I will never get over the Season of Thankgivings that have impacted me. The Bible has so many answers and motivations for us as Christians about why we should go and by going grow.
This is the week of Thanksgiving and for many they will be spending that time traveling and attempting to rush in one weekend visits to family members, and eating a meal on a time schedule as you can’t spend all day at one place, family duty calls to visit two families for most Americans. While I write this article I am extremely mindful of those that will also be spending this time alone. There are many situations that create this setting. For many it will be the death of a loved one, or children now removed from the home community and not able to gather around the family table. For some it is because their loved ones are serving our nation in the Armed Services. As I write this I am thinking of especially Erik Wesley Thomas and his friends who are serving in Iraq this Thanksgiving. I wrote in a letter to him on Veteran’s Day that I was rather confident his family looked at that day differently as this was their first experience with their child, brother, grandson and nephew who are in service to our Nation. I shared that it often takes experiences like that to change our minds and to cause us to reflect upon a Holiday such as Veteran’s Day differently. It is not a bad thing just that most of us don’t often count the cost of freedom on a regular occasion and we miss that blessing until it comes home to us.
Yes, there are many things that bring Thankgivings alive and well within us.
Thanksgiving is a perfect time for Christians to express thanks through service. In all our communities there are things that we can be involved in that will make a difference. Time doesn’t afford all of us the same opportunities but time does afford each of us the chance to make a difference. As I write this column I am in Haiti. I will be returning to the United States the day before Thanksgiving. I am in Haiti serving 8000 kids a deal meals as one of my personal efforts to make a difference. Haiti is the poorest country in the world. The hurricanes and the last earthquake here have left shanty shacks on the ground and millions with no place to call home. This is my third trip to Haiti and each time I have visited I have been reminded of the blessings I have. My Thanksgivings now are for folks that I never met personally. It is because of Individuals who believed that all the children of the world, red, yellow, black and white deserve an education and food to keep them from staving to-death I am here. The vision for these orphanages and these schools are the product of folks who believed they could make a difference. I pray my coming here encourages their family members as their vision lives on through folks they too have never met. When I return to the United States I will be preparing and serving Thanksgiving Meals through the church. Feeding folks here at home and I pray this too makes a difference.
There is much for us to do, and the fact is no one can do it alone. However, if just one person decided to walk along side another, the impact very well could last for generation upon generations.
This Holiday has passed, and while there yet remains days in the calendar month, there is always December if you too would like to make a difference. Right here at home. Volunteer with a group from a church, call up an organization you know cares about those who need us to care for them and volunteer. You can make a difference and you can find a spirit of Thanksgivings within your own life if you will only say “Here am I Lord, send me”.
Until then
This is the week of Thanksgiving and for many they will be spending that time traveling and attempting to rush in one weekend visits to family members, and eating a meal on a time schedule as you can’t spend all day at one place, family duty calls to visit two families for most Americans. While I write this article I am extremely mindful of those that will also be spending this time alone. There are many situations that create this setting. For many it will be the death of a loved one, or children now removed from the home community and not able to gather around the family table. For some it is because their loved ones are serving our nation in the Armed Services. As I write this I am thinking of especially Erik Wesley Thomas and his friends who are serving in Iraq this Thanksgiving. I wrote in a letter to him on Veteran’s Day that I was rather confident his family looked at that day differently as this was their first experience with their child, brother, grandson and nephew who are in service to our Nation. I shared that it often takes experiences like that to change our minds and to cause us to reflect upon a Holiday such as Veteran’s Day differently. It is not a bad thing just that most of us don’t often count the cost of freedom on a regular occasion and we miss that blessing until it comes home to us.
Yes, there are many things that bring Thankgivings alive and well within us.
Thanksgiving is a perfect time for Christians to express thanks through service. In all our communities there are things that we can be involved in that will make a difference. Time doesn’t afford all of us the same opportunities but time does afford each of us the chance to make a difference. As I write this column I am in Haiti. I will be returning to the United States the day before Thanksgiving. I am in Haiti serving 8000 kids a deal meals as one of my personal efforts to make a difference. Haiti is the poorest country in the world. The hurricanes and the last earthquake here have left shanty shacks on the ground and millions with no place to call home. This is my third trip to Haiti and each time I have visited I have been reminded of the blessings I have. My Thanksgivings now are for folks that I never met personally. It is because of Individuals who believed that all the children of the world, red, yellow, black and white deserve an education and food to keep them from staving to-death I am here. The vision for these orphanages and these schools are the product of folks who believed they could make a difference. I pray my coming here encourages their family members as their vision lives on through folks they too have never met. When I return to the United States I will be preparing and serving Thanksgiving Meals through the church. Feeding folks here at home and I pray this too makes a difference.
There is much for us to do, and the fact is no one can do it alone. However, if just one person decided to walk along side another, the impact very well could last for generation upon generations.
This Holiday has passed, and while there yet remains days in the calendar month, there is always December if you too would like to make a difference. Right here at home. Volunteer with a group from a church, call up an organization you know cares about those who need us to care for them and volunteer. You can make a difference and you can find a spirit of Thanksgivings within your own life if you will only say “Here am I Lord, send me”.
Until then
Friday, November 18, 2011
Mark Robbins - First Priority Season of Thanksgivings
Season of Thanksgivings. Yes, it is not a typographical error; this is the Season of not one item of thanks but rather a Season of many thanks for me. For the past several years I have taken this time of the year to express the impact and thanks of my heart for individuals that made a difference and situations that cause my heart to give thanks. I love Thanksgiving and I have learned to put out of my mind the commercialized season that brings ring ring to the cash registers of retailers. I am not sure that the Christmas season begins sooner every year but I know that Thanksgiving is as fundamental to the Christian faith as Christmas even if retailers, families, individuals and churches quickly move through the Holiday. There are individuals in each of our lives that have brought about a positive impact. Some of these folks we maybe able to name personally, others are folks that because of what they did brought necessary change to our way of thinking or simply influenced a situation that made all the difference. Robert Frost talked about this in his poem, “The Road not Taken”. For Christians, we too make road choices that should bring a sense of peace to our lives even if no one travels that road with us.
The Tri-State and the Tri-County area of Southeastern Kentucky is blessed with the impact of vision, determination and leadership through the long time Executive Director of First Priority, Mark Robbins. Mark was the person tapped by the national leadership of First Priority to begin the movement and empowerment of young people to follow Christ and to exercise their constitutional right of assemble, prayer, praise and worship all in the name of Jesus to our middle schools and high schools. When First Priority began it was a simple call to action, where churches were encouraged to get behind young people with their financial resources, energy and volunteerism as students developed leadership skills and the practice of their faith and for thousands, those who came to believe in Jesus Christ because someone dared to tell the story of Jesus and His love.
Today, First Priority has grown in Southeastern Kentucky to two different areas of focus. At the inception it was a Claiborne County Tennessee, Bell, and Harlan County movement. Once that organization proved itself, and with the spreading of the word about the success students were having in schools and the difference churches were seeing because of the impact of First Priority on students, soon the network grew deeper into the State of Tennessee and neighboring counties and in Kentucky too. Knox, Whitley and Laurel Counties also heard of the results and impact and the network continued to expand reaching thousands of students every week, many of whom never walked through the doors of a church on regular bases or had never professed a belief in Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior. The amazing thing to me as a pastor about First Priority was that it sought the influence, support and connection of the local church too. Many organizations want to be stand alone but not First Priority. First Priority aggressively pursued the church as the real connection and began to build bridges to connect students with churches that believed Jesus was the answer.
Mark Robbins is an individual I admire and appreciate for taking this vision to heart and for committing himself to the cause of students and First Priority. Working with Mark to build the network and expand the impact of churches in the lives of students and our educational campuses has been and remains a top priority of my life and one of those rewarded blessings of God that has impacted and also changed my life.
Today, the Tri-State First Priority Network is lead by Junior Minton and the Tri-County First Priority Network is lead by Tim Bargo. I am most thankful for the leadership of these men in the lives of our students. Our communities are different because these guys lead the networks and our students in school are able to exercise their constitutional rights because of the due diligence of these men who work to secure volunteer leaders, raise funds and press toward the prize of God and His calling on their lives. As I begin my Season of Thankgivings, it begins with Mark Robbins and it is easy to see what happens when one person does what is right. Others follow. Thanks Junior and Tim for continuing to build a foundation that others can build upon.
Until then
The Tri-State and the Tri-County area of Southeastern Kentucky is blessed with the impact of vision, determination and leadership through the long time Executive Director of First Priority, Mark Robbins. Mark was the person tapped by the national leadership of First Priority to begin the movement and empowerment of young people to follow Christ and to exercise their constitutional right of assemble, prayer, praise and worship all in the name of Jesus to our middle schools and high schools. When First Priority began it was a simple call to action, where churches were encouraged to get behind young people with their financial resources, energy and volunteerism as students developed leadership skills and the practice of their faith and for thousands, those who came to believe in Jesus Christ because someone dared to tell the story of Jesus and His love.
Today, First Priority has grown in Southeastern Kentucky to two different areas of focus. At the inception it was a Claiborne County Tennessee, Bell, and Harlan County movement. Once that organization proved itself, and with the spreading of the word about the success students were having in schools and the difference churches were seeing because of the impact of First Priority on students, soon the network grew deeper into the State of Tennessee and neighboring counties and in Kentucky too. Knox, Whitley and Laurel Counties also heard of the results and impact and the network continued to expand reaching thousands of students every week, many of whom never walked through the doors of a church on regular bases or had never professed a belief in Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Savior. The amazing thing to me as a pastor about First Priority was that it sought the influence, support and connection of the local church too. Many organizations want to be stand alone but not First Priority. First Priority aggressively pursued the church as the real connection and began to build bridges to connect students with churches that believed Jesus was the answer.
Mark Robbins is an individual I admire and appreciate for taking this vision to heart and for committing himself to the cause of students and First Priority. Working with Mark to build the network and expand the impact of churches in the lives of students and our educational campuses has been and remains a top priority of my life and one of those rewarded blessings of God that has impacted and also changed my life.
Today, the Tri-State First Priority Network is lead by Junior Minton and the Tri-County First Priority Network is lead by Tim Bargo. I am most thankful for the leadership of these men in the lives of our students. Our communities are different because these guys lead the networks and our students in school are able to exercise their constitutional rights because of the due diligence of these men who work to secure volunteer leaders, raise funds and press toward the prize of God and His calling on their lives. As I begin my Season of Thankgivings, it begins with Mark Robbins and it is easy to see what happens when one person does what is right. Others follow. Thanks Junior and Tim for continuing to build a foundation that others can build upon.
Until then
Saturday, November 12, 2011
Elections-Responsibilty-Duty
Kentucky has just experienced another statewide election. All elections are important and I take a sense of personal pride in knowing that I have never missed a single election process. Be it a special election, primary or general election, I have enjoyed exercising my legal right and what I also consider a personal responsibility to vote. I have friends that do not take very seriously the responsibility and privilege of voting in America. I have struggled and will continue to struggle with attempting to understand what individuals think that do not vote.
I can think of many issues that would cause me to desire to exercise my right to vote. I enjoy praying, and I don’t believe that right should be removed as a free choice and exercised right. The United States of America is a Nation that was founded upon the Bible, God’s Holy Word. His name is inscribed on the buildings of the United States Supreme Court, and throughout the historical documents his wisdom has been invoked, sought after and prayed for. Our Presidents take their oath of office with their hand placed upon the Holy Scriptures of Jesus Christ yet, no longer can a school district have a moment of prayer before a sporting event or program. Yes, all these concerns and others reasons serve me as motivation to participate in democracy.
The frustration as to why folks don’t want to be a part of the mess of politics I understand. Yes, things are a mess, but I would suggest they are a mess because good folks have stood by and done nothing. Individuals have decided best just to not get involved, and then been chief complainers once something was done. In my opinion that’s not the way we should be. Are we always going to agree with each other? No. Are different opinions and points of view important to hear and consider? Absolutely they are. Should status quo be maintained just because this is the way it has always been? Again, no to this question too. Being involved in the debate of issues is important and being involved in the lives of individuals is most important for those who profess the name of Jesus as Savior and Lord. Making a difference is not about just putting out a position paper, sharing your belief or telling someone this is what they should do. Involvement is a personal decision about sharing ourselves, our struggles and successes so the wisdom of experience can be properly applied to the next decision we are about to make.
The elected politicians of today can learn from Jesus. We constituents are in this group that can learn too. Jesus may have had a different opinion but he never closed the door of conversation, even with His enemies. Jesus saw someone in need and looked to see what He could do to make a difference and He did, without thought to His own life first. Jesus saw the possessions He had as working tools and if used properly they could help to built up another man’s life and family. Jesus told the truth. He didn’t tell the truth in a mean spirited way but He told the truth out of love and concern. Imagine what would happen if the political figures of today had that type of genuine spirit toward others. Jesus was never afraid to get involved. An individual who was hurt and lived in pain He was interested in. Someone who felt harmed or wronged He would hear them out. Jesus was no electable to public office, no He was put to death by lying testimony, judges that acted cowardly and unruly mobs. Yet, through all that, He still believed the positive side of folks even when they were showing their worse.
Voting may not be important to you but it is to me. As a Christian I feel compelled to vote and to do my best with what I have. I believe the lack of voter turn-out in Kentucky General Election is a disgrace to the men in women who have fought and continue to fight for democracy. For Christians who are not involved we have a duty and responsibility for the cause of Christ to do our part as He did his for us. This election has come and gone, but more elections are on the way. We won’t know if any hearts have been changed until we see you in the voting booth.
Until then
I can think of many issues that would cause me to desire to exercise my right to vote. I enjoy praying, and I don’t believe that right should be removed as a free choice and exercised right. The United States of America is a Nation that was founded upon the Bible, God’s Holy Word. His name is inscribed on the buildings of the United States Supreme Court, and throughout the historical documents his wisdom has been invoked, sought after and prayed for. Our Presidents take their oath of office with their hand placed upon the Holy Scriptures of Jesus Christ yet, no longer can a school district have a moment of prayer before a sporting event or program. Yes, all these concerns and others reasons serve me as motivation to participate in democracy.
The frustration as to why folks don’t want to be a part of the mess of politics I understand. Yes, things are a mess, but I would suggest they are a mess because good folks have stood by and done nothing. Individuals have decided best just to not get involved, and then been chief complainers once something was done. In my opinion that’s not the way we should be. Are we always going to agree with each other? No. Are different opinions and points of view important to hear and consider? Absolutely they are. Should status quo be maintained just because this is the way it has always been? Again, no to this question too. Being involved in the debate of issues is important and being involved in the lives of individuals is most important for those who profess the name of Jesus as Savior and Lord. Making a difference is not about just putting out a position paper, sharing your belief or telling someone this is what they should do. Involvement is a personal decision about sharing ourselves, our struggles and successes so the wisdom of experience can be properly applied to the next decision we are about to make.
The elected politicians of today can learn from Jesus. We constituents are in this group that can learn too. Jesus may have had a different opinion but he never closed the door of conversation, even with His enemies. Jesus saw someone in need and looked to see what He could do to make a difference and He did, without thought to His own life first. Jesus saw the possessions He had as working tools and if used properly they could help to built up another man’s life and family. Jesus told the truth. He didn’t tell the truth in a mean spirited way but He told the truth out of love and concern. Imagine what would happen if the political figures of today had that type of genuine spirit toward others. Jesus was never afraid to get involved. An individual who was hurt and lived in pain He was interested in. Someone who felt harmed or wronged He would hear them out. Jesus was no electable to public office, no He was put to death by lying testimony, judges that acted cowardly and unruly mobs. Yet, through all that, He still believed the positive side of folks even when they were showing their worse.
Voting may not be important to you but it is to me. As a Christian I feel compelled to vote and to do my best with what I have. I believe the lack of voter turn-out in Kentucky General Election is a disgrace to the men in women who have fought and continue to fight for democracy. For Christians who are not involved we have a duty and responsibility for the cause of Christ to do our part as He did his for us. This election has come and gone, but more elections are on the way. We won’t know if any hearts have been changed until we see you in the voting booth.
Until then
Saturday, November 5, 2011
College creates a gratful heart
Class reunions or as academic institutions like to refer to them, milestone marks, can be a lot of
fun. In this column I have written many times on the speed at which time seems to pass. Things just fly
by as you get older and there appears to be no control switch to regulate the pace at which things in life
arrive. If there were to be such a knob I am quite confident that we would never be able to settle the
debate of when to turn the speed of things down, yet, extremely confident we would all want things not
to pass so quickly. A 25 year college reunion is one of those events that “officially” give you the
distinctive status of getting older. When began to think about college I really only considered two
colleges. Because of the influence of Dr. Harold Wortman as my long time music mentor, Cumberland
College in Williamsburg had the edge by a mile over Georgetown College just north of Lexington. The
influence at Georgetown was Dr. Dudley Pomaroy who believed strongly that Georgetown was the place
for me. Both of these Kentucky Baptist Institutions would have served me well I believe, but I decided
to become a Maroon and White Indian over a Tiger and as Robert Frost wrote, that has made all the
difference for me.
Deciding where you will attend college is filled with pressure like: you need to attend a good
college or university; you need an excellent education to make it in the world; you are led to believe
with the right seal on your diploma you will land a high paying job; Lots of these thoughts I heard and
many of these same lines are used today when students begin to think about under-graduate degrees. I
know folks who studied here in the mountains from Union who went to Princeton and I know folks from
Cumberland who went to Harvard. With those facts it can be said you can get to anywhere from
anyplace if you want to. Looking back 25 years there are some things you will not know when you begin
the journey. #1 you don’t know it yet, but some of your best friends in life you will make in college. #2
exposures to ideas and concepts are vital for a solid academic education. From these exposures you will
be able to test the theories of your belief system, the values you say are yours, and the character you
think you are will be challenged. These experiences are building blocks from which will build upon the
foundation that we received from our parents. The pursuit of an academic degree is not for everyone.
If your child landed this fall on a foreign land of higher education then I know there were fears of just
how much they are going to change along with the realization that your little one is not little anymore.
For some, this past fall landed them on a job field, or in a career zone. This too is a foreign land.
Hopefully they learned in high school how to be instructed, how to take orders if you will and hopefully
they learned that life is a journey. Best advice at this juncture for encouragement would be the thought
of Christian ideology. It is not how you start but how you finish that is most important.
In college I was introduced to practical skills I needed and that I use today. Some of them are
pure academic learning moments that do apply to life. Mathematics are an important understanding to
a person who loves to cook, as is science to a police officer or investigator. Growing up there is
difficulty in seeing how any of these things relate, but they do, it just takes time, sometimes.
My learning from the Historical Cumberland College now known as the University of the
Cumberlands is one I am thankful for. I appreciate the moments I thought I learned nothing and learned
everything. I appreciate the friendships I made and cherished. I value the new introductions and
moments of memory that cause reflection about people, places and moments locked in time. I applaud
David Bergman, Director of Alumni Relations, and my long time friends Jimmy Huddleston and Melanie
Mackey Evans for their efforts in making Homecoming #25 special for me.
The biggest applause for the weekend goes to the Master of Direction and the Guide of Life. I
am so glad I learned to trust in Jesus, for He and He alone has made all the difference in my life.
Following Him has not always been easy, but it has always been fruitful. Thanks Jesus for the way you
have directed my life and created so many opportunities, Cumberland College being one.
Until then
fun. In this column I have written many times on the speed at which time seems to pass. Things just fly
by as you get older and there appears to be no control switch to regulate the pace at which things in life
arrive. If there were to be such a knob I am quite confident that we would never be able to settle the
debate of when to turn the speed of things down, yet, extremely confident we would all want things not
to pass so quickly. A 25 year college reunion is one of those events that “officially” give you the
distinctive status of getting older. When began to think about college I really only considered two
colleges. Because of the influence of Dr. Harold Wortman as my long time music mentor, Cumberland
College in Williamsburg had the edge by a mile over Georgetown College just north of Lexington. The
influence at Georgetown was Dr. Dudley Pomaroy who believed strongly that Georgetown was the place
for me. Both of these Kentucky Baptist Institutions would have served me well I believe, but I decided
to become a Maroon and White Indian over a Tiger and as Robert Frost wrote, that has made all the
difference for me.
Deciding where you will attend college is filled with pressure like: you need to attend a good
college or university; you need an excellent education to make it in the world; you are led to believe
with the right seal on your diploma you will land a high paying job; Lots of these thoughts I heard and
many of these same lines are used today when students begin to think about under-graduate degrees. I
know folks who studied here in the mountains from Union who went to Princeton and I know folks from
Cumberland who went to Harvard. With those facts it can be said you can get to anywhere from
anyplace if you want to. Looking back 25 years there are some things you will not know when you begin
the journey. #1 you don’t know it yet, but some of your best friends in life you will make in college. #2
exposures to ideas and concepts are vital for a solid academic education. From these exposures you will
be able to test the theories of your belief system, the values you say are yours, and the character you
think you are will be challenged. These experiences are building blocks from which will build upon the
foundation that we received from our parents. The pursuit of an academic degree is not for everyone.
If your child landed this fall on a foreign land of higher education then I know there were fears of just
how much they are going to change along with the realization that your little one is not little anymore.
For some, this past fall landed them on a job field, or in a career zone. This too is a foreign land.
Hopefully they learned in high school how to be instructed, how to take orders if you will and hopefully
they learned that life is a journey. Best advice at this juncture for encouragement would be the thought
of Christian ideology. It is not how you start but how you finish that is most important.
In college I was introduced to practical skills I needed and that I use today. Some of them are
pure academic learning moments that do apply to life. Mathematics are an important understanding to
a person who loves to cook, as is science to a police officer or investigator. Growing up there is
difficulty in seeing how any of these things relate, but they do, it just takes time, sometimes.
My learning from the Historical Cumberland College now known as the University of the
Cumberlands is one I am thankful for. I appreciate the moments I thought I learned nothing and learned
everything. I appreciate the friendships I made and cherished. I value the new introductions and
moments of memory that cause reflection about people, places and moments locked in time. I applaud
David Bergman, Director of Alumni Relations, and my long time friends Jimmy Huddleston and Melanie
Mackey Evans for their efforts in making Homecoming #25 special for me.
The biggest applause for the weekend goes to the Master of Direction and the Guide of Life. I
am so glad I learned to trust in Jesus, for He and He alone has made all the difference in my life.
Following Him has not always been easy, but it has always been fruitful. Thanks Jesus for the way you
have directed my life and created so many opportunities, Cumberland College being one.
Until then
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Favorite Things - Homecomings & Reunions
the song because of the idea of things we all enjoy. Things we cherish. Things we want to hold on to
and things that make a difference. Things like white copper kettles and warm woolen mittens. All of
these and so many more are just a few of my favorite things. A part of my personal collection of
favorite things includes homecomings, reunions, and good ole get-togethers.
Homecoming for me as a Baptist means one image, one memory comes to my mind ahead of all
others. Homecoming in Baptist life means preaching, singing, and eating. Please allow me to focus on
the eating for this column! The food at a homecoming is like no other time in the yearly life of a church
and her fellowship schedule. Everyone who cooks brings their best dish or two and everyone knows
whose food was prepared by whom just from the look. Yes, you just need to ask, where are Aunt
Dorothy’s dumplings’ and everyone there are can show you which bowl is hers. Real homecoming
events have real fried chicken too. Now I realize the Colonel is important in Kentucky, but that is not
exactly the real fried chicken I am talking about. I am thinking Grandma Stella’s fried chicken, now that
is real! How about Aunt Mert’s friend green tomatoes, and Lord only knows no one could fix enough
fried potatoes for such an event, but when someone does, they don’t last very long in the line that is a
fact for sure.
Reunions are a great time too. Seeing family and friends from time to time reminds all of us of
the memories we’ve shared and the great time we enjoyed growing up at all phases of life. The one
thing about reunions that I really enjoy is the photos of each family. In my personal family tradition that
is the one that that I always look forward to. My family always starts with the oldest child of those we
gather in memory of and we introduce folks and have what I call “mind history flashes” as we see
everyone. Plus it is a lot of fun to see how we change from year to year too.
Good ole get-togethers are a favorite thing as this is sometimes the unorganized event that just
happens when you find two or three folks in the same place at the same time and you walk away
saying “man we have got to get-together more often”. These get-togethers are also planned with due
notice mailed, emailed, texted, or called. Normally we meet at a restaurant when this is the case and
those who come often bring things that really remind us all of a day and time we just hung out and lived
life. I just recently got out my high school letterman’s jacket and the biggest shock was that there was
no way I was fitting into that jacket today. So, there will not be any such occasion that I will be showing
that off at such a gathering anytime soon. It is crazy in a way how we grow, how our body takes on
different shapes and the clothes we once wore just don’t seem to fit any more.
Favorite things are awesome to reflect upon. Favorite places can easily be included in such a
list. Today, Whitley County is host to such a favorite thing for many people including myself. It is
Homecoming at Cumberland College. I know, some will say, “Tim, it is the University of the
Cumberlands”, well I know that, but my diploma says, Cumberland College and I was an Indian and not a
Patriot, so if all is ok with you, I will live in History for this weekend and reflect with my friends on the
days of Cumberland College and Dr. Boswell. That time period sure brings back a lot of memories and
the leadership that Dr. Bowell gave to Cumberland should always be remembered by those of us who
had a chance to experience his leadership style and love for students. Certainly today, the University of
the Cumberlands looks like a totally different place then when I first arrived on campus. Dr. Taylor has
done an outstanding job of bringing change to the campus, updating facilities, and simply making the
place beautiful. It very well could be the most beautiful campus in the south.
As I visit Williamsburg and the campus this weekend for homecoming I am certainly looking
forward to enjoying the renewed friendship of friends that I may not have seen in 25 years. There is no
doubt as I return to Cumberland College for homecoming I will be thinking about Ms. Mac; Harvey the
campus mascot at the time; The old grey brick building, which isn’t gray anymore; Dr. Harold Wortman
my friend and mentor; Vic Edwards; and Mr. Shaw. That man who kept the campus in shape back then.
Lots of things floating in my mind for this college homecoming and I am just glad they are all a part of
my favorite things, thanks Cumberland.
Until then
and things that make a difference. Things like white copper kettles and warm woolen mittens. All of
these and so many more are just a few of my favorite things. A part of my personal collection of
favorite things includes homecomings, reunions, and good ole get-togethers.
Homecoming for me as a Baptist means one image, one memory comes to my mind ahead of all
others. Homecoming in Baptist life means preaching, singing, and eating. Please allow me to focus on
the eating for this column! The food at a homecoming is like no other time in the yearly life of a church
and her fellowship schedule. Everyone who cooks brings their best dish or two and everyone knows
whose food was prepared by whom just from the look. Yes, you just need to ask, where are Aunt
Dorothy’s dumplings’ and everyone there are can show you which bowl is hers. Real homecoming
events have real fried chicken too. Now I realize the Colonel is important in Kentucky, but that is not
exactly the real fried chicken I am talking about. I am thinking Grandma Stella’s fried chicken, now that
is real! How about Aunt Mert’s friend green tomatoes, and Lord only knows no one could fix enough
fried potatoes for such an event, but when someone does, they don’t last very long in the line that is a
fact for sure.
Reunions are a great time too. Seeing family and friends from time to time reminds all of us of
the memories we’ve shared and the great time we enjoyed growing up at all phases of life. The one
thing about reunions that I really enjoy is the photos of each family. In my personal family tradition that
is the one that that I always look forward to. My family always starts with the oldest child of those we
gather in memory of and we introduce folks and have what I call “mind history flashes” as we see
everyone. Plus it is a lot of fun to see how we change from year to year too.
Good ole get-togethers are a favorite thing as this is sometimes the unorganized event that just
happens when you find two or three folks in the same place at the same time and you walk away
saying “man we have got to get-together more often”. These get-togethers are also planned with due
notice mailed, emailed, texted, or called. Normally we meet at a restaurant when this is the case and
those who come often bring things that really remind us all of a day and time we just hung out and lived
life. I just recently got out my high school letterman’s jacket and the biggest shock was that there was
no way I was fitting into that jacket today. So, there will not be any such occasion that I will be showing
that off at such a gathering anytime soon. It is crazy in a way how we grow, how our body takes on
different shapes and the clothes we once wore just don’t seem to fit any more.
Favorite things are awesome to reflect upon. Favorite places can easily be included in such a
list. Today, Whitley County is host to such a favorite thing for many people including myself. It is
Homecoming at Cumberland College. I know, some will say, “Tim, it is the University of the
Cumberlands”, well I know that, but my diploma says, Cumberland College and I was an Indian and not a
Patriot, so if all is ok with you, I will live in History for this weekend and reflect with my friends on the
days of Cumberland College and Dr. Boswell. That time period sure brings back a lot of memories and
the leadership that Dr. Bowell gave to Cumberland should always be remembered by those of us who
had a chance to experience his leadership style and love for students. Certainly today, the University of
the Cumberlands looks like a totally different place then when I first arrived on campus. Dr. Taylor has
done an outstanding job of bringing change to the campus, updating facilities, and simply making the
place beautiful. It very well could be the most beautiful campus in the south.
As I visit Williamsburg and the campus this weekend for homecoming I am certainly looking
forward to enjoying the renewed friendship of friends that I may not have seen in 25 years. There is no
doubt as I return to Cumberland College for homecoming I will be thinking about Ms. Mac; Harvey the
campus mascot at the time; The old grey brick building, which isn’t gray anymore; Dr. Harold Wortman
my friend and mentor; Vic Edwards; and Mr. Shaw. That man who kept the campus in shape back then.
Lots of things floating in my mind for this college homecoming and I am just glad they are all a part of
my favorite things, thanks Cumberland.
Until then
Saturday, October 22, 2011
Prayer; Tradition; Change; (Bell County High School Football Prayer before games)
Sometimes when we see problems we see them from a very small window. We look at things as if we are the only person that is dealing with such and we feel isolated and often in the position of one against the world. This situation develops because we are unaware of the many other things happening around us in a much larger picture. There is no doubt that issues specific to us have the potential of having a greater impact on us, rather than someone just out in the general public. Nevertheless, there are many things that impact each of us in different ways and just because we may not have direct involvement it cannot negate the opportunity and possibility of an impact at many different levels.
Prayer is a subject of much conversation here in the mountains of Southeastern Kentucky currently because of the threat of a lawsuit against the Bell County School District from the Freedom from Religion Foundation. The Freedom from Religion Foundation, an organization that is located in the State of Wisconsin, notified the Bell County Schools of the legal action they were going to pursue against the school district if they did not cease having prayer before their football games. After the Bell County School District consulted with their legal counsel they ended the long standing tradition of prayer before games.
I have written prior to this column that in the mountains we don’t “take to well” to outsiders coming into our communities to tell us what to do and how to do it. Community standards are what attract each of us to where we live. When we ask someone what you like about this area, it is easily understood from their answers what makes our community special. I would say that prayer, and more especially public prayer is a part of our tradition and one that is and has been enjoyed throughout our communities, and not just Bell County. As a sports official for the Kentucky High School Athletic Association, I have heard prayers before games in every sport, and I consider this to be a strong tradition in Southeastern Kentucky, and one that we should be proud of.
The Freedom from Religion Foundation, on its home web page, states that they are “the nation's largest association of freethinkers (atheists, agnostics and skeptics) with over 17,000 members.” I myself am a freethinker and I applaud all such freethinkers. This is one avenue for development of ideas, goals, and to see dreams become reality. I also respect those that are atheists, agnostics and skeptics. Atheists deny the existence of a deity. Personally, I acknowledge Jesus Christ as Lord, Savior, and Creator of the Universe. I believe without Him, nothing was made and without Him, the real meaning of our purpose on earth is missed. If you want to live as if there is not God, you will not hear me complaining about your position. This position is one that I gained from Jesus. Christianity allows you to make your own decision up about what you believe about Jesus if you choose to believe anything at all. Agnostics are those that I would define as folks who are stuck in the middle of believing and knowing. They want to believe in something, but choose to believe in nothing unless they are able to define it and place their finger on it. We all know what a skeptic is. They simply doubt it all and claim no position relative to matters of faith or belief. Now if you are one of these three or another type of individual outside of these realms, you too have my respect.
When I prayed in the Chambers of the House of Representatives in Kentucky back in 1998, Kathy Steins, a Jewish lawmaker from Lexington, unleashed a verbal attack against my prayer. I simply ended my prayer in the name of Jesus. When asked why I did this, I said I was a Christian Minister, and there was no other name for me to pray to as my faith was based upon Jesus. There is plenty of room in Southeastern Kentucky for those that pray and those that do not pray. Respecting the position of each is important as we continue to live lives of faith and for some, no faith at all. Traditions are an important aspect of our lives in Southeastern Kentucky. Change is something that also doesn’t come easy.
Until then
Prayer is a subject of much conversation here in the mountains of Southeastern Kentucky currently because of the threat of a lawsuit against the Bell County School District from the Freedom from Religion Foundation. The Freedom from Religion Foundation, an organization that is located in the State of Wisconsin, notified the Bell County Schools of the legal action they were going to pursue against the school district if they did not cease having prayer before their football games. After the Bell County School District consulted with their legal counsel they ended the long standing tradition of prayer before games.
I have written prior to this column that in the mountains we don’t “take to well” to outsiders coming into our communities to tell us what to do and how to do it. Community standards are what attract each of us to where we live. When we ask someone what you like about this area, it is easily understood from their answers what makes our community special. I would say that prayer, and more especially public prayer is a part of our tradition and one that is and has been enjoyed throughout our communities, and not just Bell County. As a sports official for the Kentucky High School Athletic Association, I have heard prayers before games in every sport, and I consider this to be a strong tradition in Southeastern Kentucky, and one that we should be proud of.
The Freedom from Religion Foundation, on its home web page, states that they are “the nation's largest association of freethinkers (atheists, agnostics and skeptics) with over 17,000 members.” I myself am a freethinker and I applaud all such freethinkers. This is one avenue for development of ideas, goals, and to see dreams become reality. I also respect those that are atheists, agnostics and skeptics. Atheists deny the existence of a deity. Personally, I acknowledge Jesus Christ as Lord, Savior, and Creator of the Universe. I believe without Him, nothing was made and without Him, the real meaning of our purpose on earth is missed. If you want to live as if there is not God, you will not hear me complaining about your position. This position is one that I gained from Jesus. Christianity allows you to make your own decision up about what you believe about Jesus if you choose to believe anything at all. Agnostics are those that I would define as folks who are stuck in the middle of believing and knowing. They want to believe in something, but choose to believe in nothing unless they are able to define it and place their finger on it. We all know what a skeptic is. They simply doubt it all and claim no position relative to matters of faith or belief. Now if you are one of these three or another type of individual outside of these realms, you too have my respect.
When I prayed in the Chambers of the House of Representatives in Kentucky back in 1998, Kathy Steins, a Jewish lawmaker from Lexington, unleashed a verbal attack against my prayer. I simply ended my prayer in the name of Jesus. When asked why I did this, I said I was a Christian Minister, and there was no other name for me to pray to as my faith was based upon Jesus. There is plenty of room in Southeastern Kentucky for those that pray and those that do not pray. Respecting the position of each is important as we continue to live lives of faith and for some, no faith at all. Traditions are an important aspect of our lives in Southeastern Kentucky. Change is something that also doesn’t come easy.
Until then
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Rehounds & Bobcats Pray - Corbin Times Tribune
There are few subject matters that can be written about that gets the blood of folks boiling faster than a discussion of their personal loyalty to their local sports team. If you are a Colonel, Yellow Jacket, Wildcat, Jaguar, Cardinal, Panther, or Redhound, then you are more than likely ready to take offense if I were to write against your team or in any way write something negative. We bleed no other color than our own and we wear the t-shirts, ball caps and jackets to show just who we love too. A sport has a way of bringing out the best and the worst in us, I suppose.
I love competition and goals, direction, team work, and winning are things that do motivate me. For every athlete I know the desire to push yourself outside of your limits and safe zones are one of the aspects that has individuals signing up for their first teams and trying out to make teams everywhere. For many, there is also the love of being involved with something that you could not complete by yourself. My local loyalty to teams has been altered due to my involvement in sports as a registered official. It is difficult to be personally involved in cheering on a team and also officiating their involvement in that sport too. I have on the other hand learned to appreciate the efforts of student athletes and I enjoyed my part of their competition as such When you are in high school it is all about your school, but as adults we learn the bigger picture of not just sports, but life.
Last night the Corbin Red Hounds traveled to Log Mountain in Bell County to play a little football. In one aspect, nothing is out of the norm. The band is packed and ready to go, cheerleaders are excited and ready to cheer, parents may have taken off work early or made other arrangements to eat dinner early or to even go out and eat before or after the game. Sports officials are excited, they have made all their travel arrangements with plans to arrive a hour and a half before kick-off, and school officials and volunteers are getting the concession stands up and going, ticket booths manned and the programs ready to sell. All a part of Friday night football in the mountains. Last night was different in the unique opportunity that each side of the football field had an opportunity to participate in. While normally a Corbin Redhound and a Bell County Bobcat would rather just meet on a field for action, the real action for life took place in the stands and before the football was kicked to being in the game, and actually the real action took place even before the officials and captains met on the field for the coin toss.
Redhounds and Bobcats had the opportunity to pray together and that is real news and real action. If you are a Christian, then you believe that prayer is a direct and real communication with the creator of the Universe. You have no doubt personally experienced the practice of prayer on many different occasions in your walk with Christ. This experience is unique because it is a student lead organization known as First Priority and they are responsible for planning the reciting of the Lord’s Prayer at each game. Unique also is that fans and Christians from different churches, denominations all have a united participation in seeing the successfully practice of the First Amendment of the Constitution of the United States of America. There is no doubt that the exercise of our faith is important.
All across the Nation, the Freedom from Religion Foundation is filing complaints and yes, even lawsuits against school districts for sponsoring public prayers. The law on this matter is quite clear and with all due respect for the law of the land, individuals should be exercising their personal freedoms everywhere before that too is attacked and removed as fundamental rights we have still have today. Go Rehounds and Go Bobcats, I say.
Until then
I love competition and goals, direction, team work, and winning are things that do motivate me. For every athlete I know the desire to push yourself outside of your limits and safe zones are one of the aspects that has individuals signing up for their first teams and trying out to make teams everywhere. For many, there is also the love of being involved with something that you could not complete by yourself. My local loyalty to teams has been altered due to my involvement in sports as a registered official. It is difficult to be personally involved in cheering on a team and also officiating their involvement in that sport too. I have on the other hand learned to appreciate the efforts of student athletes and I enjoyed my part of their competition as such When you are in high school it is all about your school, but as adults we learn the bigger picture of not just sports, but life.
Last night the Corbin Red Hounds traveled to Log Mountain in Bell County to play a little football. In one aspect, nothing is out of the norm. The band is packed and ready to go, cheerleaders are excited and ready to cheer, parents may have taken off work early or made other arrangements to eat dinner early or to even go out and eat before or after the game. Sports officials are excited, they have made all their travel arrangements with plans to arrive a hour and a half before kick-off, and school officials and volunteers are getting the concession stands up and going, ticket booths manned and the programs ready to sell. All a part of Friday night football in the mountains. Last night was different in the unique opportunity that each side of the football field had an opportunity to participate in. While normally a Corbin Redhound and a Bell County Bobcat would rather just meet on a field for action, the real action for life took place in the stands and before the football was kicked to being in the game, and actually the real action took place even before the officials and captains met on the field for the coin toss.
Redhounds and Bobcats had the opportunity to pray together and that is real news and real action. If you are a Christian, then you believe that prayer is a direct and real communication with the creator of the Universe. You have no doubt personally experienced the practice of prayer on many different occasions in your walk with Christ. This experience is unique because it is a student lead organization known as First Priority and they are responsible for planning the reciting of the Lord’s Prayer at each game. Unique also is that fans and Christians from different churches, denominations all have a united participation in seeing the successfully practice of the First Amendment of the Constitution of the United States of America. There is no doubt that the exercise of our faith is important.
All across the Nation, the Freedom from Religion Foundation is filing complaints and yes, even lawsuits against school districts for sponsoring public prayers. The law on this matter is quite clear and with all due respect for the law of the land, individuals should be exercising their personal freedoms everywhere before that too is attacked and removed as fundamental rights we have still have today. Go Rehounds and Go Bobcats, I say.
Until then
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Pineville Sun Column - Corbin Redhounds & Bell County Bobcats Unite....in prayer
If there is any subject I could write about to get the blood of most individuals heated would be the discussion of sports or our teams. Now personally I must confess I grew up in a time when Bell County had lots of sports loyalties. Once upon a time Bell County had three high schools. Bell County; Lone Jack; and Henderson Settlement; Bell County was also the home and continues to be the home of two other independent districts, Pineville & Middlesboro. I am going to add one more team to my list and that is Red Bird. Yes, Red Bird has always been a part of Bell County especially for those living in the southeastern part of Bell County.
Lots of different mascots one could follow back then and lots of loyalties too. It was 1976, the Bi-Centennial Year of our Nation that Henderson Settlement closed and then in 1984, the Lone Jack mustangs and the Bell County Bobcats consolidated together. Me, I have always been a Maroon & White Bobcat and I suppose I always will be. I could write a list of my friends who when to Lone Jack, Red Bird, Pineville and Middlesboro. I never felt the need to develop a “hate” like I saw witnessed in some because of their loyalties. I guess it is probably true that some folks carry such an attitude still, but that type of mind set has never been a part of my life. Maybe it was because Coach Bill Adams from Pineville was always so nice to me and it never seemed to bother him that I lived in the County. No misunderstanding here, I know he loved Pineville and bleed maroon and gold, but it never seemed to cause him to mistreat me or wish me ill in any form. There was no greater fan of the mustangs than “Stick” Overton or Coach Wayne Walters, and I always felt welcomed and liked among them too. Each full of passion and love for their schools and personally I appreciated and respected that then, and still today.
Sports brings out the best and the worst I suppose, and our emphasis should always be on the best, believing in excellence, rejecting the negative and applauding the efforts of all who participate on and off the field.
This Friday night, gathering on Log Mountain, will be Bobcats of Bell County and the Redhounds of Corbin. Bobcats claw and Redhouds howl. I am sure the fans will fill the stands to push, pull and yell for their teams. One aspect that will be most unique at this game will be the united effort of the visitors during the moment of silence. Reciting the Lords Prayer in unison is unique and it can be a powerful statement of united efforts by students from both schools as they work together to pray.
The First Priority Clubs of these two regions are both active and the student leadership of both clubs have the legal grounds to believe in prayer and to support prayer. I applaud the work of these students and I encourage all the parents and adults how attend such events to also encourage and support the student leadership as they exercise their legal rights as students. The First Amendment of the Constitution of the United States of America is important, and it is important to practice our rights too.
Until then
Lots of different mascots one could follow back then and lots of loyalties too. It was 1976, the Bi-Centennial Year of our Nation that Henderson Settlement closed and then in 1984, the Lone Jack mustangs and the Bell County Bobcats consolidated together. Me, I have always been a Maroon & White Bobcat and I suppose I always will be. I could write a list of my friends who when to Lone Jack, Red Bird, Pineville and Middlesboro. I never felt the need to develop a “hate” like I saw witnessed in some because of their loyalties. I guess it is probably true that some folks carry such an attitude still, but that type of mind set has never been a part of my life. Maybe it was because Coach Bill Adams from Pineville was always so nice to me and it never seemed to bother him that I lived in the County. No misunderstanding here, I know he loved Pineville and bleed maroon and gold, but it never seemed to cause him to mistreat me or wish me ill in any form. There was no greater fan of the mustangs than “Stick” Overton or Coach Wayne Walters, and I always felt welcomed and liked among them too. Each full of passion and love for their schools and personally I appreciated and respected that then, and still today.
Sports brings out the best and the worst I suppose, and our emphasis should always be on the best, believing in excellence, rejecting the negative and applauding the efforts of all who participate on and off the field.
This Friday night, gathering on Log Mountain, will be Bobcats of Bell County and the Redhounds of Corbin. Bobcats claw and Redhouds howl. I am sure the fans will fill the stands to push, pull and yell for their teams. One aspect that will be most unique at this game will be the united effort of the visitors during the moment of silence. Reciting the Lords Prayer in unison is unique and it can be a powerful statement of united efforts by students from both schools as they work together to pray.
The First Priority Clubs of these two regions are both active and the student leadership of both clubs have the legal grounds to believe in prayer and to support prayer. I applaud the work of these students and I encourage all the parents and adults how attend such events to also encourage and support the student leadership as they exercise their legal rights as students. The First Amendment of the Constitution of the United States of America is important, and it is important to practice our rights too.
Until then
Barbourville Advocate Column - Knox County/Exciting Times
What exciting times to be writing as there are so many different topics and things happening everywhere we turn. Nationally there is the great discussion of who will the Republican Party select as their Presidential candidate. Nationally we have much to debate about with respect to our Country. Are we in a 2nd recession, what must be done to get the economy going again, and how should we view the crowds gathering in are larger metropolitan cities that are protesting everything from Wall Street, mortgage companies, banks to our elected officials. At the top of the list locally we have a wet dry petition that is being circulated not to mention the on-going issue of drugs that continues to plaque Knox County. So much to write about a so few words within the scope of this column.
I write that this is exciting times, and I believe that these are. It is exciting because I believe that the answer for our communities will be found within ourselves. Yes, there are always going to be outside influences and organizations that promote one position over another, and for this writer, this is exciting. Each of us has the opportunity to be involved and make a difference. When I talk with folks I see the leadership skills, the vision casting capabilities possessed by so many, and we can look around and see great successes discovered when people work together. We have the new wellness center that is a shining example of what happens when people decide to make a difference for everyone. Everyone in Knox County and even the surrounding counties will benefit from the new aquatic opportunities that were created because of that vision. The general health and wellbeing of our citizens now has a new opportunity to take personal responsibility for their individual health, because civic leaders, elected officials, and citizens decided to make something happen.
Yes, exciting times indeed, but certainly not without debate and disagreement. When I think about Barbourville-Knox County I think about all the good that is within each of us to make a difference by being a friend, giving a helping hand, listening with a clear conscious and first and foremost working to the benefit of others over ourselves. Sometimes we individuals have the ability to overlook the important things, and the previous sentence is a key to making our home the place we each want it to be. “Working to the benefit of others over ourselves”. One of the most negative impacting actions anyone can take is to remain uninvolved. Not taking a stand, not sharing your opinion, not giving of your resources, not extending a helping hand is a mistake that individuals often make. Sure, no one wants to be rejected. No one wants to have their thought discarded or their belief not taken seriously but all of these experiences are a part of getting involved and creating a dialog that gives the opportunity for a difference to be made.
Meaningful relationships are one key to making a difference. Yes, we can all do things out of devotion and duty, but that is not what I am writing about. The Bible instructs us to go one mile, and we can do that simply because the Bible tells us to, but the key to making a difference is going the second mile. This is where most of us miss the opportunity to make a difference. We go one mile and then call it quits. We give up because no one listened, or seemed to care. It can be frustrating when we are passionate and believe what we are thinking, and again, that is exciting, and that is a part of the answer.
Until then
I write that this is exciting times, and I believe that these are. It is exciting because I believe that the answer for our communities will be found within ourselves. Yes, there are always going to be outside influences and organizations that promote one position over another, and for this writer, this is exciting. Each of us has the opportunity to be involved and make a difference. When I talk with folks I see the leadership skills, the vision casting capabilities possessed by so many, and we can look around and see great successes discovered when people work together. We have the new wellness center that is a shining example of what happens when people decide to make a difference for everyone. Everyone in Knox County and even the surrounding counties will benefit from the new aquatic opportunities that were created because of that vision. The general health and wellbeing of our citizens now has a new opportunity to take personal responsibility for their individual health, because civic leaders, elected officials, and citizens decided to make something happen.
Yes, exciting times indeed, but certainly not without debate and disagreement. When I think about Barbourville-Knox County I think about all the good that is within each of us to make a difference by being a friend, giving a helping hand, listening with a clear conscious and first and foremost working to the benefit of others over ourselves. Sometimes we individuals have the ability to overlook the important things, and the previous sentence is a key to making our home the place we each want it to be. “Working to the benefit of others over ourselves”. One of the most negative impacting actions anyone can take is to remain uninvolved. Not taking a stand, not sharing your opinion, not giving of your resources, not extending a helping hand is a mistake that individuals often make. Sure, no one wants to be rejected. No one wants to have their thought discarded or their belief not taken seriously but all of these experiences are a part of getting involved and creating a dialog that gives the opportunity for a difference to be made.
Meaningful relationships are one key to making a difference. Yes, we can all do things out of devotion and duty, but that is not what I am writing about. The Bible instructs us to go one mile, and we can do that simply because the Bible tells us to, but the key to making a difference is going the second mile. This is where most of us miss the opportunity to make a difference. We go one mile and then call it quits. We give up because no one listened, or seemed to care. It can be frustrating when we are passionate and believe what we are thinking, and again, that is exciting, and that is a part of the answer.
Until then
Sunday, October 9, 2011
Daniel Boone Festival - Knox County Rich History
This weekend is the perfect time to travel to Barbourville-Knox County and the Daniel Boone Festival! Of all the events that happen in Kentucky Communities, nothing is more historical then the Daniel Boone Festival. This event honors the history which led to the discovery of Kentucky and the history of the people before we became a Commonwealth in 1792. Our Community is rich in history that includes not just the discovery of a new land, Ken-tuck-ee, as the Indians pronounced it, but the discovery of the Cumberland Gap by Dr. Thomas Walker and his journey to Barbourville in 1750, truly opened the gateway for the thousands of settlers who would cross The Gap, most notably because of his efforts to forge on, would be Daniel Boone.
Knox County has a rich tradition of family, heritage, and community. Those characteristics are still cherished values set us apart then and today. There are many communities throughout the Commonwealth of Kentucky that have been forgotten because of the fading of landmarks and the failure of those remaining to remember the history from which we began. Our rich history here in Knox County includes remembering little country stores that dotted our landscape that served as the post office and community information centers. Our rich history includes the one room school houses that educated our grandparents and parents and most importantly the rich history of we the people. Our history includes the first settlers that traveled on a path to Flat Lick, made friends and peace with the Indians who where here before us, and decided to make this land home. That historical site in Flat Lick marking the “Warriors Path” may not seem like much in the history of America today but there would be no Cumberland Gap Parkway without our fore-fathers who walked that very trail, cutting back brush as they went in search of new lands. Many discovered their dreams here in this land flowing with milk and honey.
With plenty of big game to hunt and soil rich for planting this land was a dream that became reality. Today we can still hunt big game. There are plenty of elk filling the mountains today because of the efforts of conservationist and the Department of Fish and Wildlife. Yes, we even Black Bear too.
Barbourville-Knox County has a strong community history because of the churches that were established in these local settlements that became the base for community activities. When you walk the booths of the Daniel Boone Festival today the young may think of each different and individual church as the perfect place for chicken and dumplings, another for burgers or cornbread or deserts. Their participation in the Daniel Boone Festival has a real historical value because of their involvement in the settling of Knox County, Kentucky. Churches in Knox County have always served as a gathering place for worship, but there were the first establishments or institutions of learning. Many of our churches served as the first schools for reading and writing and the corporation of our educational school systems and our churches share a rich history of being a willing partner in assisting one another. This historical tradition of mutual aid to one another remains in place today here in Knox County. First Priority is a perfect example of the cooperation between churches, young people, and our communities today.
There is much to be proud of in Barbourville-Knox County and the Daniel Boone Festival is a shining gem of the history of this area. Remembering those that came before us is not only important historically, but it is also fun. Enjoy seeing the friends you’ve missed because of the hustle of life and enjoy the laughter of stories as you mingle the streets this weekend, but most importantly remember that “this land, our land” is an important part of not just Kentucky History but American History.
Until then
Knox County has a rich tradition of family, heritage, and community. Those characteristics are still cherished values set us apart then and today. There are many communities throughout the Commonwealth of Kentucky that have been forgotten because of the fading of landmarks and the failure of those remaining to remember the history from which we began. Our rich history here in Knox County includes remembering little country stores that dotted our landscape that served as the post office and community information centers. Our rich history includes the one room school houses that educated our grandparents and parents and most importantly the rich history of we the people. Our history includes the first settlers that traveled on a path to Flat Lick, made friends and peace with the Indians who where here before us, and decided to make this land home. That historical site in Flat Lick marking the “Warriors Path” may not seem like much in the history of America today but there would be no Cumberland Gap Parkway without our fore-fathers who walked that very trail, cutting back brush as they went in search of new lands. Many discovered their dreams here in this land flowing with milk and honey.
With plenty of big game to hunt and soil rich for planting this land was a dream that became reality. Today we can still hunt big game. There are plenty of elk filling the mountains today because of the efforts of conservationist and the Department of Fish and Wildlife. Yes, we even Black Bear too.
Barbourville-Knox County has a strong community history because of the churches that were established in these local settlements that became the base for community activities. When you walk the booths of the Daniel Boone Festival today the young may think of each different and individual church as the perfect place for chicken and dumplings, another for burgers or cornbread or deserts. Their participation in the Daniel Boone Festival has a real historical value because of their involvement in the settling of Knox County, Kentucky. Churches in Knox County have always served as a gathering place for worship, but there were the first establishments or institutions of learning. Many of our churches served as the first schools for reading and writing and the corporation of our educational school systems and our churches share a rich history of being a willing partner in assisting one another. This historical tradition of mutual aid to one another remains in place today here in Knox County. First Priority is a perfect example of the cooperation between churches, young people, and our communities today.
There is much to be proud of in Barbourville-Knox County and the Daniel Boone Festival is a shining gem of the history of this area. Remembering those that came before us is not only important historically, but it is also fun. Enjoy seeing the friends you’ve missed because of the hustle of life and enjoy the laughter of stories as you mingle the streets this weekend, but most importantly remember that “this land, our land” is an important part of not just Kentucky History but American History.
Until then
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Bell County High School Prayer before Football Game
Not sure if you have ever been to Wisconsin, but I traveled there in 1982. It was a part of the Bell County 4-H Teen Club exchange program. It was a great experience and I learned all about cheese while I was there. That was 1981; 30 years later it appears that Wisconsin has come to the mountains of Southeastern Kentucky. I would like to say it is a reunion and a welcomed visit, but that is not the situation. The visit from Wisconsin comes in the form of threat of legal action against the Bell County Board of Education unless it ended the mountain tradition and school districts approved practice of prayer before Friday night home football games.
August 23, 2011 was not a good day for local communities nor local traditions. Growing up one of the characteristics that has made America great has been the individualism that each of our communities, counties and cities has held as its own traditions and values. I certainly believe that the mountains of Southeastern Kentucky is welcoming to visitors, we love folks to come and sit a spell, and while we may not always agree with the position of those around us, we understand diversity and its value, but for folks in Wisconsin to object to our way of life, tradition and value that does stink. If some local lawyer wanted to take the case, fine, if local folks don’t agree with prayer, fine, but for a group outside of our community to tell us what to do, well, that just doesn’t sit well!
I prayed in the Kentucky House of Representative in February 2000 as the House Chaplain and I ended my prayer saying, “in the name of Jesus, Amen”. It set off a political firestorm within the media as one legislator complained about my prayer and my use of the name Jesus. My response to the media was that I was a Christian and as a minister of the gospel of Jesus Christ that was the only name I could pray under. I certainly respect the right of folks to pray or not to pray. No one can make anyone bow their heads as is the tradition of most Christians when praying. I respect the right of individuals to not believe in Jesus and I respect their right of folks to worship any god they want to or no god at all if they so choose.
We live in a democracy and that doesn’t mean that the majority rules and whatever they say is the law of the land. Living in a democracy means that we respect the rights of all and we protect those most venerable of abuse or neglect. This responsibility of democracy I take very serious. Why?, because I have found myself in the minority on issues in my lifetime. I have fought for the underdog and I don’t regret for one second taking my public stand for what I believe. Has such decisions come with a price sure, no one ever said if you do what’s right it would be popular or that you would be applauded. The opposite is really true, do what is right and you will more than likely find yourself all alone.
Next Friday night, September 30, students are planning on reciting The Lord’s Prayer in unison. No public address system will be used nor should it be needed. This collective action of uniting into one voice sounds like the perfect thing for students and those attending to do. Exercising individual rights is extremely important and practicing your faith is even more important all the time! The United States Congress opens each session, each day in prayer. The President of the United States of America has a constitutional duty to call upon our Nation to pray as legislated by Congress. The Kentucky House of Representatives and the Kentucky Senate open their duties in prayer and we inaugurate the President, our Governors and swear into office elected officials under the oath, “So help me God”. Our Pledge of Allegiance reminds us that we are a Nation Under God. It might be that you don’t like these facts at all, and I respect that fully, I’m just glad that you have that protect today to disagree and not participate at all if you so choose.
It might be that prayer ends all across the land officially, that our citizens remove every reference of God from all things public but that will never remove Him from my heart. For the record, I think that if Wisconsin can come here and complain about our prayers then it is time to go to Wisconsin and complain about cheese!
Until then
August 23, 2011 was not a good day for local communities nor local traditions. Growing up one of the characteristics that has made America great has been the individualism that each of our communities, counties and cities has held as its own traditions and values. I certainly believe that the mountains of Southeastern Kentucky is welcoming to visitors, we love folks to come and sit a spell, and while we may not always agree with the position of those around us, we understand diversity and its value, but for folks in Wisconsin to object to our way of life, tradition and value that does stink. If some local lawyer wanted to take the case, fine, if local folks don’t agree with prayer, fine, but for a group outside of our community to tell us what to do, well, that just doesn’t sit well!
I prayed in the Kentucky House of Representative in February 2000 as the House Chaplain and I ended my prayer saying, “in the name of Jesus, Amen”. It set off a political firestorm within the media as one legislator complained about my prayer and my use of the name Jesus. My response to the media was that I was a Christian and as a minister of the gospel of Jesus Christ that was the only name I could pray under. I certainly respect the right of folks to pray or not to pray. No one can make anyone bow their heads as is the tradition of most Christians when praying. I respect the right of individuals to not believe in Jesus and I respect their right of folks to worship any god they want to or no god at all if they so choose.
We live in a democracy and that doesn’t mean that the majority rules and whatever they say is the law of the land. Living in a democracy means that we respect the rights of all and we protect those most venerable of abuse or neglect. This responsibility of democracy I take very serious. Why?, because I have found myself in the minority on issues in my lifetime. I have fought for the underdog and I don’t regret for one second taking my public stand for what I believe. Has such decisions come with a price sure, no one ever said if you do what’s right it would be popular or that you would be applauded. The opposite is really true, do what is right and you will more than likely find yourself all alone.
Next Friday night, September 30, students are planning on reciting The Lord’s Prayer in unison. No public address system will be used nor should it be needed. This collective action of uniting into one voice sounds like the perfect thing for students and those attending to do. Exercising individual rights is extremely important and practicing your faith is even more important all the time! The United States Congress opens each session, each day in prayer. The President of the United States of America has a constitutional duty to call upon our Nation to pray as legislated by Congress. The Kentucky House of Representatives and the Kentucky Senate open their duties in prayer and we inaugurate the President, our Governors and swear into office elected officials under the oath, “So help me God”. Our Pledge of Allegiance reminds us that we are a Nation Under God. It might be that you don’t like these facts at all, and I respect that fully, I’m just glad that you have that protect today to disagree and not participate at all if you so choose.
It might be that prayer ends all across the land officially, that our citizens remove every reference of God from all things public but that will never remove Him from my heart. For the record, I think that if Wisconsin can come here and complain about our prayers then it is time to go to Wisconsin and complain about cheese!
Until then
Saturday, September 17, 2011
Political Correctness or Real love for Country
If you are one that enjoys the new social medias such as Facebook and Tweeter accounts to name just two, you have seen this question asked at least a thousand times, “What were you doing on September 11, 2001?” There were many questions on this topic asked over this past week and folks were posting and re-posting these types of questions as a means to express themselves. As I looked at some of these I felt a sense of what I would call a “robotic American” response. Here in the mountains of Southeastern Kentucky we have always appreciated genuine people. Genuine people are those that say what they mean, mean what they say, are straight shooters in conversation and treat people with respect and honesty. There remains another trait of mountain people that we trace back our roots all the way to the American Revolution. We are a people that are willing to volunteer and to serve our Nation through enlisting and serving our Country in her Armed Services.
Mountain Families have always been a ready supply with their young sons who have answered the call from the Civil War to this latest 10 year undeclared war, called initially the War on Terror. Our Nation united at the experience of 9-11!
In my lifetime, this was the second experience in which I thought the United States of America and her citizens were united in her efforts and sacrifice to serve one another and mankind. In 1976 our Nation was celebrating her 200th Birthday and patriotism. Love for our country was easily seen and there was a sense of pride in where we had come from and excitement about the future of the USA. The world was not exactly a beautiful place, there were wars and rumors of wars and Palestine wasn’t paradise. For those of you who clearly remember the year here is a personal flash back, Barry Manilow wrote “I write the songs” and it went all the way to #1 on Billboard Top 100!
On 9-11 the citizens of our Nation were united because of an act of terror against our citizens like we had never before experienced. The Iranian Hostage Crisis in 1979 that involved the Ayatollah Khomenini . 55 Americans were held hostage for 444 days when the American Embassy was captured but it didn’t have the same impact. 9-11 was in the homeland and not across the seas and around the world as it seemed. The December 7, 1941 attack by the Imperial Japanese Navy at Pearl Harbor in Hawaii was an attack against our armed men and women who serve in our military forces. Unlike 9-11, which was a direct attack against our unarmed civilians, 9-11 galvanized the patriotism of our Nation which was genuine, but ten years later, for many it appears to have faded and become a “robotic America” response.
Political correctness has no place with respect to Patriotism. People should stop at the singing of the National Anthem through respect and appreciation for the bombs that did burst in the air. We should stand at allegiance and attendance in response to the passing of the colors of the United States of America because the stars and bars represent the freedom our country represents and stands for across the world when those colors fly. I am confident that we all know how to read folks and we all understand the spirit of our friends when they say things or when we observe their actions.
The United States of America is the greatest country in the world. We present freedom and democracy and even with our current economic struggles. the USA is still the greatest financial institution in the world. We are a super power no matter who we elect as the President of the United States and love for country should not be highlighted once a year or during a highlighted memorial. Love for country and appreciation for America and all she represents should be lived out in each of our lives daily. Love for our country is found in the symbols our democracy and it lives in our attitudes and commitment to her causes. Sacrifice is a part of freedom and Jesus is a great example for all of us. In Christianity He paid it all.
Until then
Mountain Families have always been a ready supply with their young sons who have answered the call from the Civil War to this latest 10 year undeclared war, called initially the War on Terror. Our Nation united at the experience of 9-11!
In my lifetime, this was the second experience in which I thought the United States of America and her citizens were united in her efforts and sacrifice to serve one another and mankind. In 1976 our Nation was celebrating her 200th Birthday and patriotism. Love for our country was easily seen and there was a sense of pride in where we had come from and excitement about the future of the USA. The world was not exactly a beautiful place, there were wars and rumors of wars and Palestine wasn’t paradise. For those of you who clearly remember the year here is a personal flash back, Barry Manilow wrote “I write the songs” and it went all the way to #1 on Billboard Top 100!
On 9-11 the citizens of our Nation were united because of an act of terror against our citizens like we had never before experienced. The Iranian Hostage Crisis in 1979 that involved the Ayatollah Khomenini . 55 Americans were held hostage for 444 days when the American Embassy was captured but it didn’t have the same impact. 9-11 was in the homeland and not across the seas and around the world as it seemed. The December 7, 1941 attack by the Imperial Japanese Navy at Pearl Harbor in Hawaii was an attack against our armed men and women who serve in our military forces. Unlike 9-11, which was a direct attack against our unarmed civilians, 9-11 galvanized the patriotism of our Nation which was genuine, but ten years later, for many it appears to have faded and become a “robotic America” response.
Political correctness has no place with respect to Patriotism. People should stop at the singing of the National Anthem through respect and appreciation for the bombs that did burst in the air. We should stand at allegiance and attendance in response to the passing of the colors of the United States of America because the stars and bars represent the freedom our country represents and stands for across the world when those colors fly. I am confident that we all know how to read folks and we all understand the spirit of our friends when they say things or when we observe their actions.
The United States of America is the greatest country in the world. We present freedom and democracy and even with our current economic struggles. the USA is still the greatest financial institution in the world. We are a super power no matter who we elect as the President of the United States and love for country should not be highlighted once a year or during a highlighted memorial. Love for country and appreciation for America and all she represents should be lived out in each of our lives daily. Love for our country is found in the symbols our democracy and it lives in our attitudes and commitment to her causes. Sacrifice is a part of freedom and Jesus is a great example for all of us. In Christianity He paid it all.
Until then
Friday, September 2, 2011
Labor Day -- the workers are few
Holidays will begin to fill the calendar as we approach the last quarter of the year. Labor Day is a celebration of the American work force and it was born out of conflict. The action taken by Congress was an attempt to relieve tensions between the government and organized labor. Many Americans look at Labor Day as an end to summer, but that is not the purpose of the holiday, it was designed as a means to recognize and celebrate the organized work force in America.
For those that have been employed by Labor Unions and who have worked for organizations where the employees were associated together through their employment or interest celebrating this weekend will be easy. There was a time where if you had a Union job you were set! In the big cities we think about automobile unions and labor organizations. Electricians and plumbers come to mind, not to mention steel workers, all playing big roles as members in such organizations. Here in the mountains of Kentucky, we think about the UMWA, United Mine Workers of America as a union we all recognize, but there are plenty to go around. Organizations range from teachers unions to individuals who are employed by either the state or federal government.
When I think about the word Labor I also think about things from a Biblical point of view. The Bible encourages labor….and there are great songs of the faith that also encourage us to “work for the day is coming”. There is also that New Testament scripture that lets us know that the harvest is ready, but the laborers are few. This scripture seems to be in a total contrast to the idea that there is a work force that is ready, willing, and up to the task of spiritual labor. When you consider that there are churches on what seems like every corner and normally when you find one, you will discover a band of churches all located in what appears to be a “hotbed” of spiritual activity, why are there few laborers?
Again, from the image of things it looks like we have it going on. We normally have great buildings. Normally they are brick buildings too, they we’re built for specific purpose and for use by the congregation it appears. We have gyms, worship centers, children’s areas and the list goes on. Churches today spend money on radio and television programs and when properly presented with a rightful cause congregations will give money to that purpose to demonstrate their support. All this sounds good doesn’t it, but on a spiritual labor side, things are not so good. Why build buildings that we only use one day a week or at best on a Wednesday and Sunday only. Why do we feel good about having buildings that are members can use but we seldom open them up to the community. Oh, no letters please, I know we don’t open things up to the community because it cost money to build such buildings and it takes money to maintain them too. Yes, I understand, I am just thinking that if we are not using such buildings to win individuals to the Kingdom of God, what good are they and wow, what a good job we have done to convince ourselves we have done and are doing the right thing. Remembering all along, the God’s word says the Harvest is ready, but the laborers are few!
This is Labor Day Weekend, and no doubt there will be many individuals who identify themselves as Christians who will be off to one place or another. For the record there is nothing wrong with Christians taking vacations, going on trips, and relaxing. The is nothing wrong with Christians enjoying themselves but there really is something wrong if we are not a part of the Labor and yet are expecting to be a part of the Harvest.
Our churches are filled with people who can make a difference if they would only be willing to step into the field of services. Our churches have individuals who have been touched by tragedy and have a story of faith to tell, if they would only speak up and share. Our congregations are filled with sinners who can relate to darkness and lost ways, if only we would see ourselves as part of His answer for a lost and dying world. This Labor Day, ask yourself the question what have you done to rest from your labors and then ask what must I do since the laborers are few and the Harvest is ready?
Until then
For those that have been employed by Labor Unions and who have worked for organizations where the employees were associated together through their employment or interest celebrating this weekend will be easy. There was a time where if you had a Union job you were set! In the big cities we think about automobile unions and labor organizations. Electricians and plumbers come to mind, not to mention steel workers, all playing big roles as members in such organizations. Here in the mountains of Kentucky, we think about the UMWA, United Mine Workers of America as a union we all recognize, but there are plenty to go around. Organizations range from teachers unions to individuals who are employed by either the state or federal government.
When I think about the word Labor I also think about things from a Biblical point of view. The Bible encourages labor….and there are great songs of the faith that also encourage us to “work for the day is coming”. There is also that New Testament scripture that lets us know that the harvest is ready, but the laborers are few. This scripture seems to be in a total contrast to the idea that there is a work force that is ready, willing, and up to the task of spiritual labor. When you consider that there are churches on what seems like every corner and normally when you find one, you will discover a band of churches all located in what appears to be a “hotbed” of spiritual activity, why are there few laborers?
Again, from the image of things it looks like we have it going on. We normally have great buildings. Normally they are brick buildings too, they we’re built for specific purpose and for use by the congregation it appears. We have gyms, worship centers, children’s areas and the list goes on. Churches today spend money on radio and television programs and when properly presented with a rightful cause congregations will give money to that purpose to demonstrate their support. All this sounds good doesn’t it, but on a spiritual labor side, things are not so good. Why build buildings that we only use one day a week or at best on a Wednesday and Sunday only. Why do we feel good about having buildings that are members can use but we seldom open them up to the community. Oh, no letters please, I know we don’t open things up to the community because it cost money to build such buildings and it takes money to maintain them too. Yes, I understand, I am just thinking that if we are not using such buildings to win individuals to the Kingdom of God, what good are they and wow, what a good job we have done to convince ourselves we have done and are doing the right thing. Remembering all along, the God’s word says the Harvest is ready, but the laborers are few!
This is Labor Day Weekend, and no doubt there will be many individuals who identify themselves as Christians who will be off to one place or another. For the record there is nothing wrong with Christians taking vacations, going on trips, and relaxing. The is nothing wrong with Christians enjoying themselves but there really is something wrong if we are not a part of the Labor and yet are expecting to be a part of the Harvest.
Our churches are filled with people who can make a difference if they would only be willing to step into the field of services. Our churches have individuals who have been touched by tragedy and have a story of faith to tell, if they would only speak up and share. Our congregations are filled with sinners who can relate to darkness and lost ways, if only we would see ourselves as part of His answer for a lost and dying world. This Labor Day, ask yourself the question what have you done to rest from your labors and then ask what must I do since the laborers are few and the Harvest is ready?
Until then
Saturday, August 20, 2011
James & Bernadine Mills 55 years of Marriage
Personally I don’t have any problem admitting that I use my fingers to count. Mrs. Engle (First Grade), Mrs. Carter (Second Grade) and Mrs. Hoskins (Third Grade) I think they would be proud of me today, after all, I am using the skills they taught me in grade school after all these years. My reason for counting is that my parents are celebrating their 55th Wedding Anniversary this week and I used my fingers in tens to count the years. I am smiling thinking who is most exciting right now? My elementary school teachers because of their effort to teach me to count, or is it my parent’s because I have actually remembered their special day? Either way, I used my fingers to count, and doing such reminds me of a day that seems so long ago, and yet just like yesterday.
Grade school does fill our memory banks with people, places and events. Like when Arjay Elementary got a new teeter totter, now that was exciting! Schools today can’t have teeter totter like we had, they were metal, steel, wood and had nails and bolts that kept the seats on so you could have fun for all the time recess would allow. Certainly they were not child proof because I had plenty of splinters and busted knees from hitting the ground and playing way to rough. Come to think of it, I am not even sure if there was a child protection agency for toys back then, if there was, I cannot recall having even heard of them back then.
Thinking about children and parents, if I had been born in this generation my parents would no doubt be in jail from all the moments of corporal punishment they dished out to me. We all know spanking children is against the law now, and discipline is illegal, or at least so it seems. Funny how things change in life, and what once work has been discarded for a new method. Now I am not sure what the newer method is, but I know it normally means kids get what they want, when they want, and no one says anything to them, its just the way it is. Well, one thing I know for certain, that wasn’t the way it was around our home growing up. If I got a whipping at school when I got home I would get a whipping by mother and then one by dad too…..not sure what that method is called, but it sure seemed to work.
When I think about my parents and their celebration of 55 years of marriage I think about a much different time. Two love birds growing up on Stinking Creek in Knox County and they drove to New Tazewell, Tennessee to get married. Now, just a funny side not for me personally. When I look at their pictures from 1956 I see the signs that say New Tazewell from their wedding pictures and my mind gets to thinking that someone needs to change the sign….New Tazewell is not new anymore. We’ve got Tazewell, and New Tazewell, let me see…maybe Newer Tazewell for now? It is amazing, everything seems to change, but then somethings never change. My parents like many got married in Tennessee, visited Devils Garden and traveled 25E when it was a winding two lane road that somehow even now fills the memory with cherished moments of life back then.
The Bible says that Children are a blessing of the Lord, and that is a good blessing for parents, because if you were anything like me, Lord knows it was only Him that kept me alive and being beat to death by my parents! Being a child and knowing that God looks at us and tells parents they are blessed puts a lot of pressure on kids to live up to God’s word. One fact for certain, I am thankful that my parents married, brought three of us into existence, and have raised us in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Not that we always followed it, but that they did it. There is something that needs to be said for a 55 year commitment and from this baby child the thing that keeps jumping out at me is that I was the one who was blessed.
Thanks mom & dad for all your love and congratulations on 55 years of marriage. You are a great example!
Until then
Grade school does fill our memory banks with people, places and events. Like when Arjay Elementary got a new teeter totter, now that was exciting! Schools today can’t have teeter totter like we had, they were metal, steel, wood and had nails and bolts that kept the seats on so you could have fun for all the time recess would allow. Certainly they were not child proof because I had plenty of splinters and busted knees from hitting the ground and playing way to rough. Come to think of it, I am not even sure if there was a child protection agency for toys back then, if there was, I cannot recall having even heard of them back then.
Thinking about children and parents, if I had been born in this generation my parents would no doubt be in jail from all the moments of corporal punishment they dished out to me. We all know spanking children is against the law now, and discipline is illegal, or at least so it seems. Funny how things change in life, and what once work has been discarded for a new method. Now I am not sure what the newer method is, but I know it normally means kids get what they want, when they want, and no one says anything to them, its just the way it is. Well, one thing I know for certain, that wasn’t the way it was around our home growing up. If I got a whipping at school when I got home I would get a whipping by mother and then one by dad too…..not sure what that method is called, but it sure seemed to work.
When I think about my parents and their celebration of 55 years of marriage I think about a much different time. Two love birds growing up on Stinking Creek in Knox County and they drove to New Tazewell, Tennessee to get married. Now, just a funny side not for me personally. When I look at their pictures from 1956 I see the signs that say New Tazewell from their wedding pictures and my mind gets to thinking that someone needs to change the sign….New Tazewell is not new anymore. We’ve got Tazewell, and New Tazewell, let me see…maybe Newer Tazewell for now? It is amazing, everything seems to change, but then somethings never change. My parents like many got married in Tennessee, visited Devils Garden and traveled 25E when it was a winding two lane road that somehow even now fills the memory with cherished moments of life back then.
The Bible says that Children are a blessing of the Lord, and that is a good blessing for parents, because if you were anything like me, Lord knows it was only Him that kept me alive and being beat to death by my parents! Being a child and knowing that God looks at us and tells parents they are blessed puts a lot of pressure on kids to live up to God’s word. One fact for certain, I am thankful that my parents married, brought three of us into existence, and have raised us in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Not that we always followed it, but that they did it. There is something that needs to be said for a 55 year commitment and from this baby child the thing that keeps jumping out at me is that I was the one who was blessed.
Thanks mom & dad for all your love and congratulations on 55 years of marriage. You are a great example!
Until then
Friday, August 19, 2011
Wildlife Dinner - Greenland Baptist Church, Corbin, KY
As a minister serving churches there are always moments that you just really appreciate. Often I have shared the humorous line that we pastor’s make our congregations happy 100% of the time. The punch line is that we make 50% of them happy when we come to the church and the other 50% happy when we announce we are leaving. One of the moments that pastors and ministers appreciate is the invitation to come back and visit with the church. Sometimes this invitation is to speak at a revival, a homecoming service or some other dedication or special event. This type of moment is appreciated because it allows us an opportunity to reconnect with individuals and families that we loved, serviced and share connections with because of the ministry.
This weekend, August 20, 2011 the Greenland Baptist Church located on the Falls Road in Corbin, Ky., will be hosting their Annual Wildlife Dinner at 6:00pm. Greenland Baptist is filled with folks who love the outdoors and hunting. They are also filled with folks who can cook, which makes for the perfect combination to host and sponsor a Wildlife Dinner. They have been working hard throughout this past year fishing and hunting to fill this event with food, food, food! Now I am not sure which church friend or member has gone out and killed the Bison, but I am confident that Buffalo will be on the menu and I for one will be excited no matter the method. I am leaning more toward the fact that the Buffalo meat may have just been purchased instead of a big hunting trip, but again, I’m excited either way.
Deacon Terry Akins is the guy who had the vision for this event. I really disappointed him while I was serving as their Interim Pastor. He had this idea for a Wildlife Dinner and he approached me with the thought and I said yes. I was thinking it was a great idea to bring new folks into the church, I was thinking it was a great idea to attract hunters and folks who love the outdoors, I was just thinking it was a great idea and didn’t realize I should have said in a “conservative tone” this is a crazy idea and churches don’t do this type of thing. Sorry Deacon Terry, but my youthful pastor nature had the best of me and I know that all the folks who have visited and enjoyed the churches hospitality and this event over the past years are glad I wasn’t thinking too….yes, I’m laughing and smiling big time right now! When churches think outside the box of what they have always done that is the time one needs to step out of God’s way and allow him to use people and to make a difference in all our lives.
The Bible says that Jesus Christ came to seek and to save that which is lost and that you are I as Christians we are called to go into the highways, hedges and by-ways compelling them to come in. Not sure what your latest actions have been on the “search and rescue” course of God’s work, but I am fully confident that He is expecting us to have not just a plan with emergency equipment properly packed and stored, but He is expecting us to be in a 5 alarm status now using our resources today. The church is a light house and our light should be shining in all directions with the warning that God’s love is available and a decision needs to be made today. The Bible says that there is a broad road that leads to destruction and that many are traveling that road. Finding the narrow road of faith takes the helping hand of a good neighbor. Arriving safely at our journey takes the help of trusted friends who speak truth into our lives and are solid encouragements and examples of a life changed because of Jesus.
Greenland Baptist Church is sponsoring their Annual Wildlife Dinner August 20th and I am honored to be sharing the story of my “Big Hunt” that evening too. I want to invite you to come and visit with us Saturday, enjoy some great game and meet some new folks that I have discovered to be great friends.
Until then
This weekend, August 20, 2011 the Greenland Baptist Church located on the Falls Road in Corbin, Ky., will be hosting their Annual Wildlife Dinner at 6:00pm. Greenland Baptist is filled with folks who love the outdoors and hunting. They are also filled with folks who can cook, which makes for the perfect combination to host and sponsor a Wildlife Dinner. They have been working hard throughout this past year fishing and hunting to fill this event with food, food, food! Now I am not sure which church friend or member has gone out and killed the Bison, but I am confident that Buffalo will be on the menu and I for one will be excited no matter the method. I am leaning more toward the fact that the Buffalo meat may have just been purchased instead of a big hunting trip, but again, I’m excited either way.
Deacon Terry Akins is the guy who had the vision for this event. I really disappointed him while I was serving as their Interim Pastor. He had this idea for a Wildlife Dinner and he approached me with the thought and I said yes. I was thinking it was a great idea to bring new folks into the church, I was thinking it was a great idea to attract hunters and folks who love the outdoors, I was just thinking it was a great idea and didn’t realize I should have said in a “conservative tone” this is a crazy idea and churches don’t do this type of thing. Sorry Deacon Terry, but my youthful pastor nature had the best of me and I know that all the folks who have visited and enjoyed the churches hospitality and this event over the past years are glad I wasn’t thinking too….yes, I’m laughing and smiling big time right now! When churches think outside the box of what they have always done that is the time one needs to step out of God’s way and allow him to use people and to make a difference in all our lives.
The Bible says that Jesus Christ came to seek and to save that which is lost and that you are I as Christians we are called to go into the highways, hedges and by-ways compelling them to come in. Not sure what your latest actions have been on the “search and rescue” course of God’s work, but I am fully confident that He is expecting us to have not just a plan with emergency equipment properly packed and stored, but He is expecting us to be in a 5 alarm status now using our resources today. The church is a light house and our light should be shining in all directions with the warning that God’s love is available and a decision needs to be made today. The Bible says that there is a broad road that leads to destruction and that many are traveling that road. Finding the narrow road of faith takes the helping hand of a good neighbor. Arriving safely at our journey takes the help of trusted friends who speak truth into our lives and are solid encouragements and examples of a life changed because of Jesus.
Greenland Baptist Church is sponsoring their Annual Wildlife Dinner August 20th and I am honored to be sharing the story of my “Big Hunt” that evening too. I want to invite you to come and visit with us Saturday, enjoy some great game and meet some new folks that I have discovered to be great friends.
Until then
Sunday, August 7, 2011
Darin S Wilson - Union College A.D. to lead Georgia Gwinett College Athletic Program
There are many ways in which to celebrate change, accomplishment, and success. Generally resignation is not the word we associate with such an announcement but it is the proper word to describe the decision made by Union College Athletic Director, Dr. Darin S. Wilson and his announcement and that of Georgia Gwinett College to his selection and acceptance to serve as their Athletic Director in Lawrenceville, Georgia.
I have used many difference names in speaking with Dr. Wilson over the years of my association with him. We first met when I served as a collegiate sports official umpiring baseball and supervising officials at the N.A.I.A. level. I simply referred to him then by his baseball jersey number “5”. Later when he became the assistant coach of the Union Bulldog Baseball Program that adjusted to the proper title of “Coach Wilson”. That title continued when he became the Head Coach of the Bulldog Baseball program. While our on the field friendship was solid and strong our friendship grew in other ways too. I had the honor and privilege of leading Darin in believers baptism and he also served as the Minister of Music for the Horse Creek Road Baptist Church in Corbin, Ky. He is an excellent soloist and his Christian Faith is strong, and vibrant. I was able to serve he and his wife Patti as an officiating minister at their wedding ceremony, which was an honor for me.
It is amazing how our friendship has grown over the years. With his resignation announcement it is amazing how fast 18 years has passed. One moment he was walking onto the diamond as a player and then a blink of the eyes and he has lead the Union Athletic program to achieve unprecedented growth and accomplishment with Championships and team achievements some might have never even dreamed possible. How did he do it, you might ask? Simply, he has lived a life of excellence, believes that pushing for the prize is not only a Biblical call but one that we should each strive for as individuals and collectively as team members too. It is not everyday that we as observers can witness individual change in people but watching Director Wilson it becomes obvious of the leadership skills he possesses and his personal characteristics of excellence shine.
He leaves Union College after having proven his abilities and as he leaves for Georgia Gwinett College, he does so to lead them in establishing their athletic program. Building a program from the ground up is exciting and filled with challenges that Coach Wilson is excited to tackle. When I think about the task before him, hiring coaches, establishing fields, securing contracts, and building a cohesive and comprehensive Athletic Department is going to be another great witness experience. Great witness for Darin as he demonstrates his Christian commitment and leadership and a great witness experience for us who will be checking in and watching from a distance.
Serving him and Union College as the Sports Chaplain for 10 years has been a blessing beyond words. I have known Dr. Darin S. Wilson by many names. Our experiences over the years have been awesome. When I think about the best descriptive for our time together I think it is best summed up simply by saying it’s been a great journey….friend.
Until then
I have used many difference names in speaking with Dr. Wilson over the years of my association with him. We first met when I served as a collegiate sports official umpiring baseball and supervising officials at the N.A.I.A. level. I simply referred to him then by his baseball jersey number “5”. Later when he became the assistant coach of the Union Bulldog Baseball Program that adjusted to the proper title of “Coach Wilson”. That title continued when he became the Head Coach of the Bulldog Baseball program. While our on the field friendship was solid and strong our friendship grew in other ways too. I had the honor and privilege of leading Darin in believers baptism and he also served as the Minister of Music for the Horse Creek Road Baptist Church in Corbin, Ky. He is an excellent soloist and his Christian Faith is strong, and vibrant. I was able to serve he and his wife Patti as an officiating minister at their wedding ceremony, which was an honor for me.
It is amazing how our friendship has grown over the years. With his resignation announcement it is amazing how fast 18 years has passed. One moment he was walking onto the diamond as a player and then a blink of the eyes and he has lead the Union Athletic program to achieve unprecedented growth and accomplishment with Championships and team achievements some might have never even dreamed possible. How did he do it, you might ask? Simply, he has lived a life of excellence, believes that pushing for the prize is not only a Biblical call but one that we should each strive for as individuals and collectively as team members too. It is not everyday that we as observers can witness individual change in people but watching Director Wilson it becomes obvious of the leadership skills he possesses and his personal characteristics of excellence shine.
He leaves Union College after having proven his abilities and as he leaves for Georgia Gwinett College, he does so to lead them in establishing their athletic program. Building a program from the ground up is exciting and filled with challenges that Coach Wilson is excited to tackle. When I think about the task before him, hiring coaches, establishing fields, securing contracts, and building a cohesive and comprehensive Athletic Department is going to be another great witness experience. Great witness for Darin as he demonstrates his Christian commitment and leadership and a great witness experience for us who will be checking in and watching from a distance.
Serving him and Union College as the Sports Chaplain for 10 years has been a blessing beyond words. I have known Dr. Darin S. Wilson by many names. Our experiences over the years have been awesome. When I think about the best descriptive for our time together I think it is best summed up simply by saying it’s been a great journey….friend.
Until then
Saturday, July 30, 2011
The real Debit Crisis of 2011
Debt Crisis is the word for those of you who have been traveling outside the United States and had no contact with any news source for the past two months. Now that we have that dreaded day in August arriving all the politicians seem to be in a mad rush to get something done. There is no doubt that Washington D.C. is in a three way battle. The Republicans, Democrats and the Tea Party make up our modern day fiscal war. Yes, I specifically left out the President of the United States because my academic civics taught me that Congress is responsible for writing laws, passing laws, and creating and passing budgets. It seems easy to pass the buck in today’s political climate, and seems like our elected officials only know that process. While this Debt Crisis issue roars I am sure Congress will continues until the last minute and then each party will take credit for sparing us of the crisis. True is, this crisis will not pass come August 2nd. This crisis will not pass until the government of the United States lives within her means. Overwhelming debt can be quite a burden and it can leave you feeling totally helpless or at least feeling as if you will never see the “light of day” again.
There is in each of our lives a debt crisis that requires our personal attention. That battle involves only us and the outcome is based totally upon our actions and decisions. While passing the buck seems to be the system to know, understand and practice, it will not work in our personal debt crisis as a solution. In our personal lives we like to explain our actions with a phrase that we hope changes the subject and removes our responsibility. We love to live by the expression personally when doing wrong, “the devil made me do it”. Yes, let’s blame it on the devil! He is the perfect guy to give the credit too…oh sorry forgive me, She is the perfect girl to give the credit too…oh no, who do I blame this on and be politically correct? Now I have a real battle on my hand. Is the devil a guy or a girl? Attempting to be politically correct is not easy. Maybe I should just quite writing because I will surely make someone mad with every stroke of the pen.
Just as I have done in this article, it is easy to get side tracked and off in left field without staying focused on the issue at hand. Yes, our Nation has a debt crisis. We are spending more than we are bringing into the storehouse and eventually this will stop and our government will get on a plan that can turn the situation around. Personally, we are each in a debt crisis of sin also. No we don’t want to talk about this nor do we want this making the headlines either. Who wants to talk about a sin debt? Who wants to talk about being stuck, who wants to admit they are not a light of hope, or like salt is to flavor? The good news is that there is an answer! We are not stuck, we are not without hope, we are not without help. Yes, the debt is too big for us to pay off, yes, the debt requires more than we have in our personal assets or could pool together with others. Our sin debt can only be resolved through the shed blood of Jesus Christ as our Personal Lord and Savior. It is only through Him that we are able to find relief and a new beginning with complete and total forgiveness.
I am not sure what will happen with our Nations debt crisis, but I know what I have done to take care of my personal debt crisis. I invited Jesus into my heart and I surrendered all I have and all I will have to Him. Accepting His actions as the perfect plan was the first step in my recovery and trusting Him no matter what comes my way is step two. Unless you are a member of Congress you will not have a specific vote on our Nations Debt Crisis but you are fully in charge of your personal debt crisis, and Jesus is the only answer. Acts 4:12.
Until then
There is in each of our lives a debt crisis that requires our personal attention. That battle involves only us and the outcome is based totally upon our actions and decisions. While passing the buck seems to be the system to know, understand and practice, it will not work in our personal debt crisis as a solution. In our personal lives we like to explain our actions with a phrase that we hope changes the subject and removes our responsibility. We love to live by the expression personally when doing wrong, “the devil made me do it”. Yes, let’s blame it on the devil! He is the perfect guy to give the credit too…oh sorry forgive me, She is the perfect girl to give the credit too…oh no, who do I blame this on and be politically correct? Now I have a real battle on my hand. Is the devil a guy or a girl? Attempting to be politically correct is not easy. Maybe I should just quite writing because I will surely make someone mad with every stroke of the pen.
Just as I have done in this article, it is easy to get side tracked and off in left field without staying focused on the issue at hand. Yes, our Nation has a debt crisis. We are spending more than we are bringing into the storehouse and eventually this will stop and our government will get on a plan that can turn the situation around. Personally, we are each in a debt crisis of sin also. No we don’t want to talk about this nor do we want this making the headlines either. Who wants to talk about a sin debt? Who wants to talk about being stuck, who wants to admit they are not a light of hope, or like salt is to flavor? The good news is that there is an answer! We are not stuck, we are not without hope, we are not without help. Yes, the debt is too big for us to pay off, yes, the debt requires more than we have in our personal assets or could pool together with others. Our sin debt can only be resolved through the shed blood of Jesus Christ as our Personal Lord and Savior. It is only through Him that we are able to find relief and a new beginning with complete and total forgiveness.
I am not sure what will happen with our Nations debt crisis, but I know what I have done to take care of my personal debt crisis. I invited Jesus into my heart and I surrendered all I have and all I will have to Him. Accepting His actions as the perfect plan was the first step in my recovery and trusting Him no matter what comes my way is step two. Unless you are a member of Congress you will not have a specific vote on our Nations Debt Crisis but you are fully in charge of your personal debt crisis, and Jesus is the only answer. Acts 4:12.
Until then
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Carnes Family Reunion - Walker, Ky
History here in the Mountains of Kentucky has always been an instrumental part of who we are. Two things that have slipped away from old heritage with our modern day families would be work longevity with one company and a big family. Most of our forefathers were farmers and for those that had other jobs they went to work for that company and worked their entire lives as a loyal employee. They were also proud to say, “I’ve been here 35 years”…something that you just don’t hear from our generation when we talk about our employer. Those in the field of education have best chance of making that statement, but the rest of us will see 7 to 12 career changes in our life time, so the statistics say. As for big families, well, I’m smiling as I type this thinking about all the families I know. Particularly I am thinking about the one child families I know. No family heritage in that size family in Kentucky. I often share with folks that our grandparents, great-grandparents and great great-grandparents all had been families because they needed workers on the farm.
This Saturday, July 16, 2011, my family is having a big reunion at the Walker Baptist Church in Walker, Kentucky. Directions are simple, just drive up Stinking Creek and stop at the church. Walker, Kentucky is home to the Carnes’ and I am most thankful for the heritage our family represents. George Carnes, Sr., was my great-grandfather and Mossie Carnes, or “Big Mom” as she was affectingly called. My grandfather we simply called “Pap”. A name I love myself and when the blessings of my life tell me they love me, I transfer some of that love to “Pap” and the meaning he had in my life. He and my great-grandmother had 10 kids, and they raised them all on Stinking Creek.
My grandfather, Alonzo Carnes was the oldest of the Carnes Children, followed by my uncles Cloyd; McCoy; Flem D; George Jr; Lee Roy; and the baby was Uncle Raymond. My aunts were Edna, Dorothy, and the baby on that side is my Aunt Evelyn. Ten (10) children is what I would call a big family and if you could still see the house where they were raised you would have asked how? There is something to be said for the generation of my great-grandparents and there is something that must also be said for the generation of my great aunts and uncles too. They had a determination to serve our Country in time of war and they became teachers, farmers, working in factors and they all left home at some point to help support the family they left behind. Jobs in Michigan, Indiana and Ohio were necessary and whatever it took, they were willing. Those family traits are not easily seen in the families of today, but they were back then.
When you look at the off-springs of these 10 children you can see how our families have also mirrored in part the heritage that was passed down to each of us. Personally, family has been and will always remind a vital part of my life. We’ve all got a few cousins down the line that we would like to change or fix. If you are thinking, not me, then I might suggest you look a little harder at your family line…yes, I’m smiling and laughing and guessing you are to. The truth is the truth, and as folks often say, that will stand when the worlds on fire. I was taught by my parents to love my family. After all we moved from Michigan to Kentucky so we could get to know our family heritage and to the best of my abilities I have tried to know and cherish each and every one of my immediate and extended family members for who they are.
It is not always possible to make every family reunion, but it is certainly possible to love your family when you see them and as opportunity presents itself to make you best effort to not forsake the assembling of oneself at that special occasion. Some extended family members are thinking, “no one will know me if I show up, but I would sure like to go”…well, there is no time like the present and don’t worry about remembering everyone’s name that you meet….that’s what name tags are for. Happy Reunion to my family and yours!
Until then
This Saturday, July 16, 2011, my family is having a big reunion at the Walker Baptist Church in Walker, Kentucky. Directions are simple, just drive up Stinking Creek and stop at the church. Walker, Kentucky is home to the Carnes’ and I am most thankful for the heritage our family represents. George Carnes, Sr., was my great-grandfather and Mossie Carnes, or “Big Mom” as she was affectingly called. My grandfather we simply called “Pap”. A name I love myself and when the blessings of my life tell me they love me, I transfer some of that love to “Pap” and the meaning he had in my life. He and my great-grandmother had 10 kids, and they raised them all on Stinking Creek.
My grandfather, Alonzo Carnes was the oldest of the Carnes Children, followed by my uncles Cloyd; McCoy; Flem D; George Jr; Lee Roy; and the baby was Uncle Raymond. My aunts were Edna, Dorothy, and the baby on that side is my Aunt Evelyn. Ten (10) children is what I would call a big family and if you could still see the house where they were raised you would have asked how? There is something to be said for the generation of my great-grandparents and there is something that must also be said for the generation of my great aunts and uncles too. They had a determination to serve our Country in time of war and they became teachers, farmers, working in factors and they all left home at some point to help support the family they left behind. Jobs in Michigan, Indiana and Ohio were necessary and whatever it took, they were willing. Those family traits are not easily seen in the families of today, but they were back then.
When you look at the off-springs of these 10 children you can see how our families have also mirrored in part the heritage that was passed down to each of us. Personally, family has been and will always remind a vital part of my life. We’ve all got a few cousins down the line that we would like to change or fix. If you are thinking, not me, then I might suggest you look a little harder at your family line…yes, I’m smiling and laughing and guessing you are to. The truth is the truth, and as folks often say, that will stand when the worlds on fire. I was taught by my parents to love my family. After all we moved from Michigan to Kentucky so we could get to know our family heritage and to the best of my abilities I have tried to know and cherish each and every one of my immediate and extended family members for who they are.
It is not always possible to make every family reunion, but it is certainly possible to love your family when you see them and as opportunity presents itself to make you best effort to not forsake the assembling of oneself at that special occasion. Some extended family members are thinking, “no one will know me if I show up, but I would sure like to go”…well, there is no time like the present and don’t worry about remembering everyone’s name that you meet….that’s what name tags are for. Happy Reunion to my family and yours!
Until then
Sunday, July 3, 2011
Illustrations you can use.....from your driver's seat
Illustrations in life are most often easily understood by those listening but not always discovered that way. If you want to test this position, just think of a topic and select a story or object to illustration your point. This can be a quite a challenge when you want your words to have impact and relevance. Speaking, and attempting to motivate audiences and groups has always created nervous moments for me. I wish at some point I would grow out of this, but I don’t believe that is going to happen. One thing I am thankful for is that fact that I have always seen lots of illustrations throughout life.
In ministry I prefer to use real moments that have made a difference instead of finding some “Google” story to illustrate my point. Early in my ministry training I was given the advice to preach what you know and tell people what you understand. If you get outside of that range you will find yourself in a mess no doubt. For me, ministry has always been simple. Jesus loves you and me so much that He was willing to die in our place, if we would only accept His forgiveness for our sin. The second aspect of ministry is that you and I are to help others discover that He has a plan not just for my life but for theirs too.
When it comes to life a couple of illustrations I enjoy sharing are from an automobile perspective. When you are sitting in the driver’s seat of your auto, what do you see? Folks will answer with things like the dashboard, and if you ask what else, they will begin to get very detailed about what they see. They will list the different parts of the dashboard and console, all the while missing the biggest thing they see from the driver seat, the windshield. It is so obvious what we see that we over look it immediately. There is only one thing that is attached to a windshield, and that is a rearview mirror. This little tool is valuable. We use it to check what’s happening behind us and if we are driving backwards it is the main key to successfully parking or driving in that direction. The point of illustration is that with these facts being undisputable, why is it that most folks will spend most of their lives looking in their ”rearview mirror” instead of looking out the big wide open unobstructed windshield to move forward? I am suggesting that the best way to advance is to see and look ahead and instead of focusing on what’s behind all the time.
Another driving illustration I like to talk about is road signs. They are there for a reason and if we take notice and are observant they are of great assistance. The issue most of us have with road signs is that while we are driving we are not looking out far enough in advance. We are no longer in scanning mode seeing what’s happening around us or what could happen if someone else is not paying attention. A curve sign that is marked 35MPH is because that is a safe speed to safely make the maneuver and a safe speed to also stop in the event that became necessary. My favorite sign of all signs is a stop sign. When you see a stop sign up ahead or maybe you don’t see the sign but you’ve traveled the road enough to know that a stop sign exist, you are preparing to stop as you approach. The one life lesson from every stop sign is that throughout our life’s journey we are going to be stopping a lot, and we need to be prepared now to also go again. I know a lot of folks that just want things to stop without any thoughts about starting again.
Life is not easy. There are many moments in which we will be shifting gears, changing lanes, and even taking a highway exit to re-fuel, check our tire pressure, or even our engine fluid levels. All a part of the experience we call life. Today is a perfect day for you to make a decision about what you see from the driver seat of your car. It is also a perfect day to ask yourself, are you ready to go when you see the next stop sign? Being confident that God has a plan for you will help you as you move forward and looking out at life can also be an encouragement if you will attempt to see God speaking to you in all that you see and in all the places you go. Find your own life illustration today, and share it with someone you know that needs to hear a word of encouragement on their journey.
Until then
In ministry I prefer to use real moments that have made a difference instead of finding some “Google” story to illustrate my point. Early in my ministry training I was given the advice to preach what you know and tell people what you understand. If you get outside of that range you will find yourself in a mess no doubt. For me, ministry has always been simple. Jesus loves you and me so much that He was willing to die in our place, if we would only accept His forgiveness for our sin. The second aspect of ministry is that you and I are to help others discover that He has a plan not just for my life but for theirs too.
When it comes to life a couple of illustrations I enjoy sharing are from an automobile perspective. When you are sitting in the driver’s seat of your auto, what do you see? Folks will answer with things like the dashboard, and if you ask what else, they will begin to get very detailed about what they see. They will list the different parts of the dashboard and console, all the while missing the biggest thing they see from the driver seat, the windshield. It is so obvious what we see that we over look it immediately. There is only one thing that is attached to a windshield, and that is a rearview mirror. This little tool is valuable. We use it to check what’s happening behind us and if we are driving backwards it is the main key to successfully parking or driving in that direction. The point of illustration is that with these facts being undisputable, why is it that most folks will spend most of their lives looking in their ”rearview mirror” instead of looking out the big wide open unobstructed windshield to move forward? I am suggesting that the best way to advance is to see and look ahead and instead of focusing on what’s behind all the time.
Another driving illustration I like to talk about is road signs. They are there for a reason and if we take notice and are observant they are of great assistance. The issue most of us have with road signs is that while we are driving we are not looking out far enough in advance. We are no longer in scanning mode seeing what’s happening around us or what could happen if someone else is not paying attention. A curve sign that is marked 35MPH is because that is a safe speed to safely make the maneuver and a safe speed to also stop in the event that became necessary. My favorite sign of all signs is a stop sign. When you see a stop sign up ahead or maybe you don’t see the sign but you’ve traveled the road enough to know that a stop sign exist, you are preparing to stop as you approach. The one life lesson from every stop sign is that throughout our life’s journey we are going to be stopping a lot, and we need to be prepared now to also go again. I know a lot of folks that just want things to stop without any thoughts about starting again.
Life is not easy. There are many moments in which we will be shifting gears, changing lanes, and even taking a highway exit to re-fuel, check our tire pressure, or even our engine fluid levels. All a part of the experience we call life. Today is a perfect day for you to make a decision about what you see from the driver seat of your car. It is also a perfect day to ask yourself, are you ready to go when you see the next stop sign? Being confident that God has a plan for you will help you as you move forward and looking out at life can also be an encouragement if you will attempt to see God speaking to you in all that you see and in all the places you go. Find your own life illustration today, and share it with someone you know that needs to hear a word of encouragement on their journey.
Until then
Sunday, June 26, 2011
Real Father's
There are many things to notice about life as we travel along it's highway. For instance, have you ever notice what we say after a holiday? At Christmas we say “Merry Christmas” leading up to Christmas Day and then we have a mind shift and “Happy New Year” becomes the greeting of choice. We say “Happy Thanksgiving” and “Happy Valentine's Day” with relative ease of flow in conversations without any real attachment or personal thought. The phrase that carry's all the meaning of personal stories for most is when we say “Happy Father's Day”.
This day is highlighted by stories of buying a new tie for dad or some other trivial matter on the surface but the meaning behind the gift is significant! While not everyone has an attachment to their father, and not everyone has pleasant memories the personal meaning and relationship for many of Father's Day is one day each year that we make sure we acknowledge that most impacting individual in our lives.
When folks say how was your Father's Day, many are only thinking about individuals who are biological father's and often times we forget about those that assumed the role for the benefit of a child without consideration for themselves. They became “Dad's” because they saw themselves as someone who could a difference if they just gave. Marriage creates lots of step-father's and in some of these instances there is a real love and relationship that is built, developed and shared by both child and parent. Yet, in other relationships it is a matter of no legal obligation, or family history or association. It is simply “what it is”. A developed relationship between an adult and a child that was nurturing, caring, provided not only the basics but most or many of the extra touches of life too. Those relationships are often looked over during this time of the year by some who consider themselves to have an earned title of “Father” and for whatever reason they do not consider those other guys to really be father's, but actually they are.
Being a father is about working to see there is always a light shining on a darken path so a child can make it through the dreary of night. Being a father is about sacrifice. Honestly this part is not about a single moment, but it is about a life time of putting yourself somewhere else on the list so that you can enjoy a big smile and happy spirit that is moved deep inside you witness the accomplishment of that child you love and care for. Being a father is about a lot of not hearing “thanks” in the early years, but prayerfully the latter years are filled with that expression for a truly grateful heart knowing the difference that was made.
Yes, Father's Day has passed for 2011, but the role of Father's continues pressing forward, moving along without a hitch or a bump in the road. They were up fixing breakfast this morning, or out warming up the car or turning the air conditioner on as the case maybe. Real dad's were making a phone call to just check in or dropping of that something special that always makes you smile. While the day is young and time is opportunity I would encourage you to acknowledge those you know that have earned their cards on Father's Day. Those that have never flinched in giving of themselves or have never looked back in making sure the real need of life was met without any fanfare or parade.
It takes a lot to be a father and for those that are known as “old man”, “pops” or “dad”, I salute you! Thanks for making a difference and for assuming a the bedrock role of every family and the foundation from which life is grown. A strong, undeterred, resolute dad that loved.
Until then
This day is highlighted by stories of buying a new tie for dad or some other trivial matter on the surface but the meaning behind the gift is significant! While not everyone has an attachment to their father, and not everyone has pleasant memories the personal meaning and relationship for many of Father's Day is one day each year that we make sure we acknowledge that most impacting individual in our lives.
When folks say how was your Father's Day, many are only thinking about individuals who are biological father's and often times we forget about those that assumed the role for the benefit of a child without consideration for themselves. They became “Dad's” because they saw themselves as someone who could a difference if they just gave. Marriage creates lots of step-father's and in some of these instances there is a real love and relationship that is built, developed and shared by both child and parent. Yet, in other relationships it is a matter of no legal obligation, or family history or association. It is simply “what it is”. A developed relationship between an adult and a child that was nurturing, caring, provided not only the basics but most or many of the extra touches of life too. Those relationships are often looked over during this time of the year by some who consider themselves to have an earned title of “Father” and for whatever reason they do not consider those other guys to really be father's, but actually they are.
Being a father is about working to see there is always a light shining on a darken path so a child can make it through the dreary of night. Being a father is about sacrifice. Honestly this part is not about a single moment, but it is about a life time of putting yourself somewhere else on the list so that you can enjoy a big smile and happy spirit that is moved deep inside you witness the accomplishment of that child you love and care for. Being a father is about a lot of not hearing “thanks” in the early years, but prayerfully the latter years are filled with that expression for a truly grateful heart knowing the difference that was made.
Yes, Father's Day has passed for 2011, but the role of Father's continues pressing forward, moving along without a hitch or a bump in the road. They were up fixing breakfast this morning, or out warming up the car or turning the air conditioner on as the case maybe. Real dad's were making a phone call to just check in or dropping of that something special that always makes you smile. While the day is young and time is opportunity I would encourage you to acknowledge those you know that have earned their cards on Father's Day. Those that have never flinched in giving of themselves or have never looked back in making sure the real need of life was met without any fanfare or parade.
It takes a lot to be a father and for those that are known as “old man”, “pops” or “dad”, I salute you! Thanks for making a difference and for assuming a the bedrock role of every family and the foundation from which life is grown. A strong, undeterred, resolute dad that loved.
Until then
Sunday, June 19, 2011
Don't ya think it's time?
Questions are a wonderful way to explore what we believe and questions are a super way to learn too. As soon as children are able to talk and our little ones get past the “repeat after me phase”, the most basic and natural expression we hear from them is in the form of a question, why? Children ask why to everything. Now as adults, we tolerate the question why but only for a moment. We will gladly accept the question why if the other party hears our answer and accepts it fully of course, but if explanation is your goal, that’s a no, no. I have no idea where we gathered this practice from but it is a widely held and practiced tradition.
Consider the practice of our traditions alone is enough to get almost any argument started. I wanted to write discussion and not type the word argument, but in most church circles a disagreement is a fight! As I prepared for this column I was considering all the practiced traditions of leadership our church congregations permit to operate. Most churches will allow the pastor to do almost anything, as long as he agrees to hang for everything. Deacons in many church settings are financial advisors and their practiced tradition is to only step in when things are bad or there is a perceived need on their part to show power and authority.
I remember a church situation in which the congregation wanted to remove someone from their church position and the lesson they learned was that normally when you remove one dictator you allow for 3 more to arise. If you are smiling as you read that sentence then you understanding fully where I am writing from but if you are mad at this moment, then you maybe the dictator or the child of one. Take a good look at your church and begin a list of all the great things you see happening. If you can complete this task quickly then this is your first indicator that your church is lacking in purpose and vision. Power and authority is whatever one wants, but normally their goal for such is all about themselves and not to the Honor and Glory of God and His Kingdom.
The next time you are a part of a disagreement in your church I challenge you to ask “why are we in a disagreement?” Then without a seconds hesitation say, “will you kneel and pray with me about individuals we know that would love to find a church filled with love and forgiveness”. If you were to do this be prepared to be called a Holy Roller and to be thought of as snobby and a self centered hypocrite. Of course I am attempting to call to our attention examples we all know right, but why? People who live and work all around us are lost and without a witness about the Love of Christ, that’s why. God designed us to do something but most Christians are committed to doing nothing! We witness church splits and we observe families that are mad at each other and may attend the same church but never speak. Surely you see there is absolutely nothing Christian about that type of attitude. We all know individuals who attended our church at some point and while we know they don’t attend church today, we have been afraid to ask the question why?
In a world of strife and confusion, it is time for the church to be peace and direction. In a world where individuals are selfish and bitter, it is time for Christians to be giving and loving. In a world where everyone has a motive it is time for us to tell about the motive of Christ. He loved us so much, he died to take away our sins and to give us a new life through Him. To be purposed is what our communities need today. To be forgiving is what we need to blow the minds of our enemies and leave people thinking we are crazy. The Judds sang, Love Can Build a Bridge, between your heart and mine, don’t you think it’s time? The only question I would ask is why is this not the time for the church to rise up like a might army and be what the world has never seen before? Don’t you think it’s time?
Until then
Consider the practice of our traditions alone is enough to get almost any argument started. I wanted to write discussion and not type the word argument, but in most church circles a disagreement is a fight! As I prepared for this column I was considering all the practiced traditions of leadership our church congregations permit to operate. Most churches will allow the pastor to do almost anything, as long as he agrees to hang for everything. Deacons in many church settings are financial advisors and their practiced tradition is to only step in when things are bad or there is a perceived need on their part to show power and authority.
I remember a church situation in which the congregation wanted to remove someone from their church position and the lesson they learned was that normally when you remove one dictator you allow for 3 more to arise. If you are smiling as you read that sentence then you understanding fully where I am writing from but if you are mad at this moment, then you maybe the dictator or the child of one. Take a good look at your church and begin a list of all the great things you see happening. If you can complete this task quickly then this is your first indicator that your church is lacking in purpose and vision. Power and authority is whatever one wants, but normally their goal for such is all about themselves and not to the Honor and Glory of God and His Kingdom.
The next time you are a part of a disagreement in your church I challenge you to ask “why are we in a disagreement?” Then without a seconds hesitation say, “will you kneel and pray with me about individuals we know that would love to find a church filled with love and forgiveness”. If you were to do this be prepared to be called a Holy Roller and to be thought of as snobby and a self centered hypocrite. Of course I am attempting to call to our attention examples we all know right, but why? People who live and work all around us are lost and without a witness about the Love of Christ, that’s why. God designed us to do something but most Christians are committed to doing nothing! We witness church splits and we observe families that are mad at each other and may attend the same church but never speak. Surely you see there is absolutely nothing Christian about that type of attitude. We all know individuals who attended our church at some point and while we know they don’t attend church today, we have been afraid to ask the question why?
In a world of strife and confusion, it is time for the church to be peace and direction. In a world where individuals are selfish and bitter, it is time for Christians to be giving and loving. In a world where everyone has a motive it is time for us to tell about the motive of Christ. He loved us so much, he died to take away our sins and to give us a new life through Him. To be purposed is what our communities need today. To be forgiving is what we need to blow the minds of our enemies and leave people thinking we are crazy. The Judds sang, Love Can Build a Bridge, between your heart and mine, don’t you think it’s time? The only question I would ask is why is this not the time for the church to rise up like a might army and be what the world has never seen before? Don’t you think it’s time?
Until then
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